Anyone else out there have previous partner who fathers your child and puts on a show for everyone…
Anyone else out there have previous partner who fathers your child and puts on a show for everyone as worlds best dad when in reality he could care less what happens to your kid and has everyone else watch babe while he has parenting time and doesn’t pay for squat and lectures you about how you shouldn’t take your child to the dr for annual check ups cuz he doesn’t want to pay? Ughhh sorry for the vent ladies.. had to get it out there..
sherry S·
That's sad...being a parent is a full time position not everyone is meant to be a parent.The great thing is You realize this now.. don't waste yrs of your life with this type of man ...I had 1 husband from 18-21 yrs old I divorced his narcissistic . controlling ways and karma deported his crazy italian /Brazilian self away
Brittney Harris ·
Мама троих детей
My ex is like that. Minus child support and doc visits. He pays (even if he doesn't want to) because court takes it from his checks. He has even bought them new shoes last month without me asking. (Surprise) but he never lets them bring anything home. He gives up alot of his days... For stupid reasons. He always leaves them with his girlfriend.. which I'm ok with now cause at least I know they're being taken care of. 🤷 Gotta think positive I guess. But it's annoying.. since he is the father and he helped make them.
Allyson Almeda·
That's basically my ex husband. I left him for that reason. He only liked the idea of having a wife and family but didn't want any of the responsibility... It was all to make him look good and like he had his shit together when in reality he was an abusive asshole and controlled my life. He was only a father to our son when it was convenient for him and when he didn't want to be he was extremely impatient with him and shoved the paci in his mouth for every little whine he made. Now he acts like father of the year and like he knows what's best for my son when he barely knows how to take care of him. His family thinks he's the perfect father even though he always puts him off on other people. He does everything to spite me half the time, he even called cps on me one time because my son was a little dirty since I didn't have time to bathe him before his father picked him up... it was really just out of jealousy because I moved on with my life and was with someone new.
Andi ·
I just wish men would get their heads out of their butts and realize they have a responsibility. Granted not all men are like this but a lot are and it makes me so mad! Like my now fiancé doesn’t even get how someone can act like this. He treats my son like his own and tells me that he will do anything for my son cuz he deserves a dad and not a dead beat