RANT: So my daughter was sitting alone at recess right before getting out of class and the teacher told her friends to…
RANT: So my daughter was sitting alone at recess right before getting out of class and the teacher told her friends to get away from her...so I assumed something happened.... I walk up to the gate to get kamari when class is over...The teacher says hold on class I need to talk to kamari's mom...before she says anything I said so what's wrong with kamari? She proceeds to say Kamari punched a little boy and it was very hard... my first question was were they playing? Teacher says no kamari said the boy grabbed her around her neck and pulled her hair so she proceeded to punch him in the stomach....my response was well I allow her to hit back and defend herself! That was the end of the convo the teacher said Oh and looked at me in astonishment then walks off.... that's fine but what
Isn't fine is my daughter was the only one on timeout after a little boy put his hands on her smh... why was she even in trouble? Waiting to talk to the principle on the phone now! My child will not be told not to hit to defend herself and she definitely will not be punished like it was her fault gtfoh! You picked the wrong one little boy....and she made sure he knew what was up!
Brenda·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@lilmz209 I call bs too. definitely go to the district. Now there just trying to cover there lame asses.
Heidi ·
@mizzvuitton I am going to the district the story has changed and it's not adding up I think its all BS starting with how the kinder teachers supervise the kids at recess now they solely blame my daughter saying no one pulled her hair etc. And she punched the boy 2x now...We have caught the story changing a few times and my daughter's story has remained the same no matter who talks to her....the principal said I cant say what happened I was not there but then again your daughter is 6 so stories can be made up
Brenda·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@lilmz209 Take that shit to the district and make sure the school knows your going they have a strong policy about bullying in california. They don't play.
Brenda·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Oh HELL NO!!! i would have been livid!!! Is she okay?? Who in there right mind will not punish the abuser!?? Like hello. I would want her ass fired. I'm sorry i am soo upset for you. lol..
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 I told him that's great promote boys pulling hair and discipline the girl because you feel she should have told a teacher only....I said that shit opens the door to rape, molestation and sex trafficking in the real world letting people violate and walk over you and being told it's ok that he initiated it and pulled you by your hair gtfoh I told him I am not having it period she will always protect herself if she feels violated and if you say she will always be in trouble for doing so that's fine...she's not going to get walked on which leads to bullying etc.
Heidi ·
My daughter is very timid and avoids confrontation at all costs she won't even hit her sister back...I told them obviously something happened she wouldn't just hit the boy
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 they said no one saw him pull her hair or grab her neck but they only saw her punch him
Heidi ·
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Heidi ·
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Heidi ·
The principal said my daughter was in the wrong and was only disciplined because she threw a physical punch and the boy only pulled her hair. He said we wouldn't have a situation if my daughter didn't hit the boy... I told the principal we wouldn't have a situation if the little boy wasn't pulling her hair period! He initiated it and they said he only pulled her hair not grabbed her neck...I was like even so he should be disciplined as well he still touched her person and obviously she felt physically violated and protected herself
Marcy·
Update??
Heidi ·
Even though he touched her first... he followed suit with the don't hit get a teacher bs
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 the little boy went and told so that's why I believe he didn't get set down in timeout
Heidi ·
The thing is the teacher knows my daughter is respectful and is a great student who doesn't like confrontation and is friends with everyone so that right there should have showed the teacher my daughter defended herself because she isn't aggressive that's out of her character
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 the teacher is a female
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 it won't lol because they don't want children defending themselves.... they want you to tell a teacher so my daughter would always be wrong in the teachers eyes
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 thank you... we will see what happens and everyone keeps telling her good job! ;) I just want her to know it was not her fault and she is not in trouble....
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 that right there is teaching the little boy it's okay to put his hands on a girl and he won't be disciplined like wtf if it was such an issue they both should have sat in timeout... he got to continue his recess and play! Of course if my daughter had hit him for no reason I would understand it but that was not the case.... my SO is waiting on the principal to return his call now...
Heidi ·
@underthesea14 she is 6 years old in Kindergarten... it is crazy she only got disciplined