Omg so yesterday i posted about my family thats always so nosey and always has bad things to say…
Omg so yesterday i posted about my family thats always so nosey and always has bad things to say about my husband and just trying to tear him down as a man when he's done nothing but support us and work hard to provide for his family. Well last night when I had to talk to my husband about how damn my family as making me especially about the whole vacation he's so sick and tired of it especially about them making me feel bad about the whole vacation thing igneel he saying that it's stressing him out to the point where he's ready to take a break on the marriage because of my family I'm always one to go to my husband and tell him what's on my mind but the fact of this is stressing him out to the point where he's ready to leave me alone...
. Like I don't know I really feel like scared that I might lose my husband over my family always having strong opinions
Jackie C·
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It almost got to that point for me as well, my family has ridiculously unrealistic high standard. So when I found someone that made my world happy and did everything he can to provide the best it wasn’t enough for them and they would talk all the crap in the world. It wasn’t until I told them calmly but seriously that if they can’t support my happiness then they have absolutely no love for me, that is the truth. This man loves me well and gives me the world and soon they started to see that when even after all the crap they talked he gave them the upmost respect everytime while seeing them or providing a helping hand. In the end if things didn’t change I would have chosen to distance myself from my family to show that what they were doing was hurting me and my happiness. Don’t give up, Love is worth fighting for🙏🏼
Cmjohnson3047·
@pure.grace i have stood up for him several times but then my mom comes and wants to see the kids or be nice just to then burn us in the long run by spreading our business to ppl we dont talk to
Cmjohnson3047·
My husband is a very private and proud guy. He hates hand outs and nosey ppl
Cmjohnson3047·
@jackieacruz12 yeah i agree i have distanced myself. To the point where we're not vacationing together and im not going over to my moms as often. But as sad as this is i can tell t he yre talkinh abt me when i leave. I just moved and ppl in my family that i dont even talk to know where i live. And thats not cool!!
Cmjohnson3047·
Oh wow ok @pure.grace thanks for that advice
Cmjohnson3047·
Thanks girl that means alot. And i am gonna do it cuz its what me and dh been talking abt. Like i dont wanna loose him cuz i love him and we had 4 amazingly beautiful children together. For better or for worse is what i vowed
Cmjohnson3047·
@candacexo thats a good way to do it also!
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Girl you’re married now . Your husband comes before them . You have your own family now and you can’t let family be the reason you’re both stressing ... I’ll put my husband and child before my family any day and I’ve done it before , block all the people that can’t respect you or your man you’ll be happier trust me
Queen Meeks·
Stop allowing your family access to cross the line. When you married your husband, he became your family. We leave and cleave for a reason! Sometimes you have to love your family from a distance because they will be the prime suspects in tearing apart your happy home.
Cmjohnson3047·
@queenmeeks thanks love i was waiting for u to comment
Moe Jaun ·
My family is the same. I think they just don’t like men. But I never gave them the chance. I think you have to make a choice. Distance your family or lose your husband. I flat out told my family that my husband IS MY FAMILY. My husband and my kids are always getting picked before them. They are my family now. I have not spoke to my “family” in 2 years and it’s honestly fine. I have my people.
Moe Jaun ·
My family is a pile of c u n t s tho. I thought they were the greatest before I got married. My eyes have been opened BIG TIME. It hurts your heart but it’s worth it.
Queen Meeks·
@cmjohnson3047 you’re welcome dear!