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One of the girls had posted this ages ago on B.B. and I saved it. Sucks to lose great posts like this one. (I just ss it for you. )
@cmjohnson3047, thanks! I had to learn this all very quickly! Lol
@tyshaijames2018, It’s definitely worth it ! Congrats hun 🎉❤️💕
@pinnkmom, I’m getting married in August imma hold on to this advice girl thank you ❤️
COMMUNICATION!!!!! I can’t stress that enough!! It’s so important to know how to positively voice your feelings and it’s equally important to know how to LISTEN when your partner is trying to communicate with you! I like to find info online or in books about healthy marriages and just talk about it with my husband. We’ll find random points and talk about if we agree or disagree with it and why. We have random chats about where we’re at, and what we can improve within ourselves and our relationship! These random convos really help with gauging where we are mentally and emotionally. It doesn’t have to be anything deep all the time. Sometimes when we’re driving I may say “so how are you feeling?” or we’ll play the “3 thing game” (name 3 things that have made you happy/sad this week) then together you discuss those things! It’s a fun way to find out what’s on each others minds! Also, Prayer changes things! If you aren’t good with finding the words, Find prayers online you can recite. Google “prayers for a healthy marriage” or something similar and you’ll find a lot! This was difficult in the beginning because my husband wasn’t very religious! But after going through so much, he’s been drawn closer to god! It makes it so much easier to have a healthy marriage when we both can follow the Bible’s view of it. Speak positivity over your marriage !! Also, take a look at yourself! a lot of times when we have issues in our relationships we always look at what’s wrong with the other person. You can’t fix your husband, but you can fix yourself! Figure out what your bugs are and get those right. It also helps to find marriage support groups in your area. My husband and I are attending one at our church next week for the first time. We aren’t having any issues BUT improving your marriage is a job that’s never done. You have to look at your marriage as a constant investment! There are always things you can work on to strengthen your bond. Lastly, DATE!! Go out, have fun! This could be tough if you have kids but it must be done! Even if you don’t have a baby sitter, put the kids to bed early and have a romantic dinner at home. My husband and I have a 2yr old and I’m currently 35 weeks pregnant but we still date! We go on dates twice a month usually every other weekend! This helps remind us of US! We stop thinking about the bills and the kids and we focus on US! It really helps. It’s important to add, You’re still gonna have problems that will arise just like everyone else, but how you deal with and overcome them is what’s important! Good luck to you both ❤️
As long as both want to save it, it is very possible!!!
maybe marriage counseling? I had a friend save her marriage with doing marriage counseling with a local pastor
It's a lot of work, but you both have to be 100% committed to fixing things.
My husband and I have recently had some things to work out. Communication is a huge part. I've also been doing some soul searching and self makeover inside and out. No major changes, but enough to get my confidence back.
Prayer, communication, and actually being willing to listen with your heart and ears.
Thank so much ladies 😍😍😍 i really appreciate it