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I just got my heart broken 😪 I never thought it’ll hurt this bad💔 before I could tell the father of my child I’m…

I just got my heart broken 😪 I never thought it’ll hurt this bad💔 before I could tell the father of my child I’m pregnant he tells me he doesn’t want to get attached 😭😭 how do I deal with this I can’t stop crying my feelings is so hurt I’ve never been inlove before n for him to tell me that after I poured my heart out to him he says he’ll still stuck onna ex 😤 how to I deal😪

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@pinnkmom, your right I want proof anyways but if I wasn’t would I be feeling how I’m feeling or looking how I’m looking

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pinnkmom

SharainМама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)

You’re only 6dpo! You have a “feeling” but you don’t know if you’re pregnant! wait until you get a positive test before you start stressing out ! @lissamariee,

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@mummyroo91, lol nah fr Ian with this stuff Ion like cramps never did never will

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mummyroo91

Mummyroo

Hahajahahhahahahaaa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@mummyroo91, I mean I kno my body 🤷🏾‍♀️ n these cramps with no blood kinda scary

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@sedaparish, I Loveeee Thisss 😂❤️ the second part of me was like nah sus he got u messed up then the other was an emtional reck the part that kills me is I didn’t even tell him I might be pregnant cause he brought up an ex supposedly still “healing” 😐 imagine I tell him like I can’t sleep at night this and that n he says I’m scared I’m not tryana get attached I just looked at him he said don’t act like I didn’t just get out of something 🤦🏾‍♀️ n I just cried I wanted to be like I’m pregnant bitch but I just said ok he looked at me seen how upset I was n still didn’t say nothing like he knows it’s sum I wanna tell him but I’m the type of person that’s like if I’m

Not wanted I’ll go 🅿️ so I told him I’m done n I really hope I mean it this time n he said mann Ite I wanted to run him over 😒 imma just wait n take a test n throw it at him 🤦🏾‍♀️

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mummyroo91

Mummyroo

@lissamariee, wait... so you don’t know??

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@mummyroo91, I don’t come on till the 10th I ovulated on the 25 I’m 6dpo today n these cramps killing me 😭 i just need this BFP just to conform so I can cry sum moe😂 lbs so I should just wait cause what if it’s sum else 🤦🏾‍♀️(even tho it’s not smh)

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@uncouth, exactly smh I put myself in this. Predicament We knew what was going to happen after unprotected sex That’s what’s killing me it’s the way he’s acting like how could u treat somebody like that n they carrying yo child

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

Ya kno that’s all I can think about if I gotta do this on my own WE got this . It’s not the baby’s fault I just didn’t expect his response to my emotions I just knew I couldn’t tell him I’m pregnant 🤦🏾‍♀️ I cried all last night thinking I literally was willing to give him my all I gave him my all n it wasn’t enough if I carry through with this will I turn into one of them babymoms that bitter 🤔 I just feel like if he’s not there during my 9months ITS MY BABY n he doesn’t have a part in us because during these 9months he’s supposed to be here it’s a 2 person experience 🤦🏾‍♀️ who wants to miss out on little moments things like that young or not 😔💯 n once again I don’t need for him to kno I’m pregnant to change his ways he should already kno by the way I’m acting😐 is he that dumb or selfish ? just thinking about himself

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mokai08

Wendy DavisВ ожидании первенца

I hear ya. I'm in the same boat in a way. My husband is off having a midlife crisis. I have no idea if he's gonna be around or not. I've decided to ignore his foolishness and focus on my son. He's very unstable in sooooo many ways that it's less stressful to not have him around right now!I definitely wasn't planning to be a single mom but I tell you what, I'm sure as hell gonna be a great one!

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vanessaband18

Brianna 🖕🏾 В ожидании первенца

You can't force a man to stay where he don't wanna tbh. Bc I was going through the same situation with my BD and I know it hurts but you have gotta be strong for you and your child

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mummyroo91

Mummyroo

Bless you. Time is a healer and you’ll be ok. Definitely tell him ASAP though

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sedaparish

Seda’s Blessing Мама сына-младенца

You used the word “Attached” lol! Girl you tell him y’all already attached because your pregnant. So it’s to late for that statement & you can not wait for him to “Act right” you have to give him that “Act Right” by telling him he will be there for you & your child! NO!!! Questions!! & I’m sure your hurt...but your heart should be filled with the love of your child. So pop his Ego & tell him what you expect. That’s how it works out. Don’t beg...just put your foot all the way down & tell him. 🤗

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@melissaredfield87, I just don’t want it to be to late when he decides to act right 😒 or is it ever to late 😭 ion kno I just don’t want for me to have to tell him I’m pregnant for him to act right 💯

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melissaredfield87

Melissa Redfield Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@lissamariee Fuck that I’m one those crazy baby mommas🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t give up and neither should you especially if you giving him his baby!!! It’s gonna be a hard one dear but it will be worth it in the end!!! men are so stupid and stubborn they don’t know what they have in front of them or they wanna have there cake and eat it too!! It takes the right kind of woman to hold a man like that down and I know you got it❤️good luck beautiful

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lissamariee

Oreanna’sMommy

@mokai08, ugh I knowww I just didn’t plan on going though this by myself

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mokai08

Wendy DavisВ ожидании первенца

I'm so sorry, momma. It's gonna hurt for a while but you will move on and learn to cope with it. Life never ends because of a man leaving.

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mamauv

MamauvВ ожидании первенца

Omg im so sorry to hear that im going through something similar im here for you mama just choose with your heart when it comes to the baby because hes a grown man that knew what he was doing. He looks like he’s not even giving you a chance and thats not fair

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