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Melek Rza
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Today in the play area , i did something and i don't know if i did right or wrong, i feel so bad.... There was a kid.…

Today in the play area , i did something and i don't know if i did right or wrong, i feel so bad....

There was a kid. The kid came to me , not to my son but to me as soon as we came in, took my hands, lead me to the sofa and turned my face to the windows, there were trucks outside, he wanted me to watch the trucks with him, i tried also to talk to him but he kept turning my face to the trucks, i couldnt resist because i didnt want to hurt the kid, but at the same time i had to watch out my son, because he is small, he falls very often and older babies hurt him sometimes, i mean at least i have to keep my eye on him, but the other kid kept turning my face and he was getting angry whenever i turned my face to my son then his father informed me that the kid is an autistic and he even didn't try to let me go to my son. I was so angry with the father of that kid and his mother who was also just watching.

But at the end i just left the play area, and the kid cried after me(((

I am feeling so bad, i don't know if i did right or wrong(

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melek.eldar

Melek Rza

Мама сына (1 год)

@achappex3 Yeah, i know...

I'm mad but sad at the same time, he cried after me (( i feel like i had to sit with him

achappex3

Allie

Мама двоих (4 года, 4 года)

@melek.eldar, it’s hard. But I see both ends. Please don’t stress it to much

melek.eldar

Melek Rza

Мама сына (1 год)

@achappex3 Not, not because of the baby, but his parents, they knew and saw that i worry about my son, i had to keep my eye on him, but the autistic kid wanted me only to sit beside him and watch trucks, he kept turning my face and the parents didn't try to distract their kid and help me somehow(

achappex3

Allie

Мама двоих (4 года, 4 года)

Jk missed the part about not letting you go to your son. Sometimes, when my child is really enjoying something or somebody I find it hard to remove her. Those moments are far and few and it warms my heart to see her interacting with people other than me and her sister. I’m sorry though. They should’ve let it be known.

achappex3

Allie

Мама двоих (4 года, 4 года)

Mad why? I have an autistic daughter And I am Genuinely curious?

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