What was the most selfish thing your SO did during/after your pregnancy?
@mitiacarolina3, I cried 😢 and I stayed with him because I was young and dumb but within a year I came to my senses and left him.
@glencoco, and don’t care if you got and rest or if you’re depressed
My husband knew I was tired during and after my pregnancy because i was a high risk and it took a toll on me.. anyway, he would call after I told him I was going to sleep just to complain about what was going on at work... every hour, everyday... and if I didn’t answer the phone the first time he was just keep calling me until I picked up and was mad at me for not picking up he first time. He literally got mad at me for trying to sleep
@momofboys30, oh hell nah... what did you do after you found out
@mitiacarolina3 I hear you honey. I had to plan and save and make nice for 2 years after I was mentally done. I stayed home with bub for a year and then started working full time to prepare to leave.
My ex took all the money I had saved up to buy a crib for my son (I was in college and only working part time as a server) and spent every last dime at a strip club.
@nrj28, I wish ... I’m not working right now because I’m raising lil man until he’s the right age for daycare so my husband pays the bills and he holds that over my head...
@basimah214, but let him get a hang nail or a scratch and watch him act like the world is burning.
@mitiacarolina3 I hear ya. There are so many examples I honestly have trouble thinking of just one. I am much happier being single than I ever was with him. :)
Mines acted like I was being dramatic when I was out of breath or didn’t want to have sex 🙄
@taylorsmommy1017, I just yell at him to get out and then he calls me mean and they actually sit on the bed and wait for me to get out
@keerri2492, wait he tried to get in the hospital bed with you?
@nrj28, 5 years in and I gotta stop myself from watching How to get away with murder
@mitiacarolina3 , we also have a queen. I had to even get my own blanket. In the hospital it was the same way I got up and let him have the tiny mattress lol.
@taylorsmommy1017, lmaooo it doesn’t matter what room I’m in .. I was in the shower the other day and my husband picked the lock, grabbed the baby, walked him in the bathroom and asked me how long was I going to take because Zach wanted me
@taylorsmommy1017, omg mine too!!!! He did it the other day... I was eating in the bedroom and I couldn’t hear Zach crying. My husband was in the living room, went into the baby room, picked him up and bought him in the room with me and then he just walked out like everything was ok
@may042017, mine would go get burgers and pizzas and eat them while he’s out then come home and ask me why haven’t I eaten
@keerri2492, we have a queen sized mattress and even during my pregnancy he would roll on me and I would have to slide over and hold on to the edge for support
@taylorsmommy1017, mine does the same thing. Will wake me up in the middle of the night to tell me Zach is crying then he will roll over and go back to sleep
I have a feeling all men are connected mentally and just shutdown when they hear the word baby
@taylorsmommy1017, dang mine did too 🤣 but it was worse... he never bought me food and then had the nerve to sleep while I was in the hospital for labor

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