Venting... This dude (my fiance) just threw a temper tantrum because I went to see a movie without him yesterday. I mean yelling and cussing in front of the kids and everything. He goes to see movies without me ALL THE TIME. He went to see the same movie today, so if I had not watched it yesterday, he would have been fine. I am just speechless...
I can understand that but at the same time you have to show them a good example of what a healthy relationship is like. I know it’s hard but hopefully it works out for you!
@andrea328, honestly staying for the kids almost always backfires. We think they’re happy cause Mom and Dad are together but in the end they’re facing the blowouts from the unhappiness between their parents. They don’t need y’all to be together. They need you to be happy and see a respectful and loving home.
@tipsymermaid idk, mostly my kids. I don't want them split with custody stuff, but I know they shouldn't be exposed to this dysfunction either. Just pray for me
@andrea328, relationships are two way streets not one. If he wants a one way street relationship tell him to go hop on one somewhere else. 👉🏼
There’s NO reason he should treat you like that or act like that.
Damn girl that’s messed up. Why are you putting up with that childish nonsense? You deserve better than that!
He and I talked about going together, but neither one of us had money to pay for a baby sitter so I just left work early to go (he could have too, I asked him about it but he didn't want to... which is fine). I knew he was going today without me, so I didn't think it would be a big deal.
@tipsymermaid cussed, yelled, and slammed his fists on the table. Then said that I "got him f*cked up".
@andrea328 Sounds like taking responsibility isn't his strong suit. Sorry you have to go thru that bs.
Just have to do what's right for you and your sweet babies ❤
@leroydoom right! I just don't understand. I'm literally sitting here shaking my head. He packed all of his things and left like we don't have kids together or something. But he does that when he gets mad which I'm pretty sick of.
@tipsymermaid I concur, real childish, damn shame
He cussed you out in front of your kids because you went to a movie without him? 😳 wow.
Mine gets mad when I go somewhere and leave our son with him but then he just takes off by himself all the time, sometimes w/o even telling me like that's okay.
Those damn dumb double standards men come up with 😏
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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