Since having my daughter I feel like my relationship with my fiancé is crumbling! We weren’t…
Since having my daughter I feel like my relationship with my fiancé is crumbling! We weren’t together very long before finding out I was pregnant and I wouldn’t take anything back to save my life but sometimes I feel like he’s resentful of her because she wasn’t planned. He has 2 children of his own from his previous marriage and I love them as if they were my own but sometimes I feel like he tries more with them than he does our daughter and he’s contantly going to the bar all the time leaving me home alone with all the kids and expects me to do everything and doesn’t appreciate any of it. We fight constantly now about money about how he’s always leaving and going out and I just don’t know what to do. I love him but I’m not feeling the love reciprocated these days and it is breaking my heart!
Angela·
Guys suck sometimes:/
🕸🌻Q🌻🕸·
Aww , well sounds like you both need a good talk and settle it once and for all. He might be stressed because maybe he didn't want another child and you guys didn't take the proper precautions to avoid it and that happens. But it's not a one sided thing. Both you and him are now in that situation and now the child can suffer feeling left out by her dad. I suggest you have a talk and tell him how you feel and hopefully y'all can move forward.
Brenda·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
It takes some men a little longer to realize the precious new baby in the home But... Could also be that he isn't getting any??? Might put him on edge. lol.. I know my hubby doesn't really tend to the babies until they are a bit older unless he has to of course, some are scared because they are too small, and rather be out of the way. Just a thought.
Nancy·
I’m all for giving space & letting guys have drinks with their friends and whatnot, but going out to bars when you have some serious issues at home are a no go. Have you two communicated about the fact that he doesn’t try as hard for your daughter like he does his other children? Also, don’t allow for him to leave the other kids with you like you’re a babysitter. I’d tell him to come home and parent his kids or id call his ex to come get them. I don’t play that shit.
sweetsap·
The only thing you can do at this point is talk to him. See where his head is at, see if he has any logic behind his actions. Just tell him how you feel
Natalie Buelvas ·
He should not be going to the bars and using you as a free babysitter. That is messed up. I would start refusing 🤷♀️