Just a little venting here. Gonna be a super long post.
So my little brother (16) lives with my boyfriend and I since my mom passed away last year. & ive been super easy on him since she's passed because i feel bad that he lost the only real parent we have and don't get me wrong im hurting worse than him still. Our mom was never a mom to me (at a very young age i was taking care of my bro and she never cared what i did I moved out on my own at 16) but she was my very best friend. But anyway i never ask him or my boyfriend to do anything. All I ask of my bro is to keep his room clean and his homework done. So today i got home and my super nice WHITE bathroom hand towel had lipstick and foundation all over it (he wears makeup) so much makeup that when i picked the towel up they're was foundation on my sink. So i was super pissed. Then i went and looked in his bedroom which i haven't in about a week. It was fucking gross as hell. Cans everywhere, MOLDY PLATES and clothes everywhere. I told him to get his ass back there and clean everything and he tells me okay and starts crying and tells me he's sorry and i feel so bad but we go through this way to much. & idk what to do anymore.
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@sbkhausfeld I know! & girl he cries about everything and it makes me feel bad but i can't keep babying him.
You had to grow up faster than normal so id be tough on him lol
By far! I was paying my own bills at 16! @sbkhausfeld
@breannapitman99 exactly. 16 is old enough to keep your shit clean lol
@sbkhausfeld its okay girl its life! & exactly girl im so tired of it. Its super unfair to me when i do absolutely everything for him.
Sorry about your mom!
I'd say stick with it !!! Not fair to you and your home. He shouldn't need reminded and you don't need that stress !
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
so my boyfriend and I live with his parents with out almost 2 week old son... his parents and his mom always want to hold him like all day everyday and get mad when I take him upstairs in our room... I'm not breast feeding... my question is with me not breastfeeding and his mom constantly holding him will he know I'm his mom? that's my biggest fear... my son not knowing who I am and thinking she's his mom.
‼️ H E L P ‼️ - So yesterday I left my son with my mom for twenty minutes to get coffee and I come back to him screaming his head off. I tried everything, gas drops, everything... Then she told me she put an adult cream on his forehead and around his neck bc it was red (he has eczema and I gave her lotion to use). So I gave him a bath and he relaxed a little bit. Then it got worse. It bubbled up, got inflamed and super red and he was crying bloody murder. So I took him to the pediatrician and they...
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
@breannapitman99 nope. he'll never learn and won't be prepared for his own ever ! You got this 😀 lol I have two brothers and I have to treat one the same way.