Need advice.
I've been with my partner for 4 1/2 years. We have a 2 1/2 year old together and another little boy on the way. At the beginning of my current pregnancy my partner went out for the night and was "spiked" with cocaine. He came home accusing me of all sorts and beat me up quiet badly. I wasn't having any of it and hes currently serving a 15 month sentence for it. (Half locked half licence) he writes and phones me all the time saying how sorry he is ect. But I really have no idea what I should do. I do love this man more than anything (except my baby's) but I don't want to constantly live in fear ? I don't know what I should do. Im 25 weeks pregnant and feel so alone. Hes been locked up for 4 months. Advice please
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I decided to end things with him. I can't constantly luve thinking what if... its been a gard couple of days but I know one day ill feel better and will be able to move on x
You did the right thing. Even if it was just once, his behavior isn't acceptable and you let him know that asap. You made the right choice, many times they become abusive because nothing was done the first time. I'm happy you were able to think clearly enough to take action. Yours is one of the good stories regarding domestic violence. Good job :)
Thank you for your support. Its the first time hes ever donr it and I really don't know what to do. I think im going to speaj to women's aid xx
I've put my 13 week baby first due father being on drugs I'm currently fighting to get him off tenancy so I can keep flat ready for baby coming I think you should keep it has it is and stay well away from him if wants contact with his kids then go contact centre and take it from there your kids are most important if I weren't pregnant I know if be back with my ex after his many sorrys I've been in violent relationship before it's not nice my ex were abusive I didn't even know til I spoke to women's aid and heard what emotionally abuse were and how foolish I had been if ever need to talk I'm here good luck and take care xxx
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his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will...
Good for you :) it's not going to be easy, but it'll be worth it