I dont understand my bfs mom at all. We have a whole baby together. He works so much that he only gets to see her 4-5 hours a day so he spends the weekend here to spend time with her and help me out. She is forcing him not to because "we arent married yet". im a bit tired of her honestly. She hinders him from growing and being his best self by constantly telling him that he isnt ready for stuff. Your son is 27, ma'am. Let him grow. Let him be the father he wants to be. Let him be better than his own.
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@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma i tried. Hes afraid of disappointing everyone so he's being passive about it
@zaeness why not talk to him and tell him how you feel about it?
@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma I'm genuinely hoping he realizes that on his own before i have to intervene because i have a lot to say. She was very intrusive during my labor process and at this point I'm fed up
@zaeness well he's going to have to stand his ground with his family and realize he can't please everyone and since he has a family now, you and the baby come first whether his family likes it or not.
@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma he really wants to be there for me and Amaiya and be the best dad he can be. But he is also trying to please everyone in this situation. When he is here his family is blowing up his phone to get him to come home.
Damn that would piss me off, who cares if you're not married? What does he think about it?
@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma yea. I have no idea how this is going to play out or if she is going to stop being like this