My ex denied that he's about to have a baby because he "doesn't want anyone knowing his business" that just upsets me so…

Same happened to me. He wanted an abortion and then kept it a secret. Now he wants to be there supposedly but says only his mom and dad know because he doesn’t know if I’m gonna be a crazy baby mom smh. Not much you can do to change someone else love.. just do what you have to do and give the baby all your love,