So I have men (boy ) problems one day he’s here one day he’s not.🙄 lady’s what do y’all think I should I do or say ?

I agree with wolf^ definitely express how you feel and if he doesn’t show any signs of change then it’s better to be single than disrespected.

If he's not trying to be there 100% then you kind of have an answer especially if you have talked about your feelings and nothing has changed.

@90s_made, it’s like we have a child let’s be there for the baby☹️

@kianna46, yes it is . I’ve just broken up . And feels horrible

@90s_made, or do we have hope ☹️ it’s kinda messed up

Going thru the same. I feel like leaving is best for me and my Daughter.but Then We always have that thought in the back of our minds it’s gonna work out 🤔😕