@jade23696 omg that sounds awful espesially that happening after the baby is born!! Thats such a long time i keep toying with the epidural can i request that then? Xx

@annie.entwistle mine was worse than i imagined because i had a bleed it wasnt my baby that caused the bleed she came out fine we was doing skin to skin and about 10 mins later the after birth was coming out and i dont kniw what the midwifes was doing they must have tugged it out and i lost 2 litres of blood so i had to have 2 blood transfusions i got induced on the thursday and gave birth on the sunday was in hosp for 6 nights just my luck i hate hosp! Was in labour for over 10 hours they ended up poping my waters in the end and that gas and air is amazing eneded up having an epidural in the end too cause i couldnt hack the pain caise i was in it for so long thats amazing totally recomend an epi! Xxx

@jade23696 i feel like you are describing me because i know im going be like that i do the same constantly on my mind, was it as bad as you imagined xxx

@annie.entwistle honestly i paniced about giving birth really bad dreamt about it and it was always on my mind haha and i was so loud i was horrible to the midwifes dont know how they coped with me swearing and calling them i bought them shortbread after tho🤣 never again tho haha got my princess thats it haha xx

@jade23696 honestly i wake up most nights with panic attacks at the thought of it ive got 17 weeks to go yet but its just the unknown i guess. I just hope im okay can see me screaming my head off 🤣 xx

@annie.entwistle i had a melt down giving birth should have seen me but its the best thing in the world skin to skin so worth it xx

@jade23696 thats what i keep saying to myself why do i worry when im going have birth a baby yikessss xx

I was terrified of needles i had to have that many they dont bother me anymore plus my mum said and i quote thats the least of your worries you think a needle is bad wait until your giving birth man she was so right but they have to come out 🤣 xx

@melissamaskell23 oh god your braver than me i couldn't even have a tattoo hate the dentist and anything that involves a needle dont know how i thought pregnancy would be okay hahah. I need man up ha xx

@jaylauren1714 your right need to be a big girl haha xc

They don't offer it you need to demand it haha. Im full of tattoos/piercings and can have my blood taken anytime but for some reason my brain tells me to be petrified of injections lol xx

I had mine yesterday and its worse today, but just remember its for baby and it makes it worth it 😊😊 xx

@ell.joe is it normal quick needle then? I am so so mard with them but suppose worse to.come 🤣 better to be safe i guess cc

@melissamaskell23 oh brill i didn't think theyd offer that, your right it defo is mind over matter xx

When they had mine done I told them how anxious I was and they put numbing cream on my arms (had to have anti d at same time) you barely feel it but it makes you less tense about having it aswell cause most of the time it's mind over matter hun xx