Hi sweet mum's hope u r doing well I have question although it's kind of early coz I am 23 weeks now and concern about giving birth do u know a good maternity hospital that have female doctors and good service coz now I am with queen Charlotte hospital and I don't know if it's the best choice and does his hospitals same as private hospitals I don't know how much it cost for giving birth in a private hospital but I bet it's quite expensive pls give me your opinion xxx
@zozo1990loly yeah if you have a normal birth afterwards you will be on a room with other women. And I don't think you can pay for a room but I'm not sure so maybe ask the hospital hun. And it's fine anytime you need advice just ask x
@mum2sky Ohh it's scary 😣u mean in normal birth not the birth centre it means i have to share room with other women ? I can't have my own room even if I pay them for the room ? Thanks alot for answering my questions 😍🤗😍
@zozo1990loly I was given the epidural. It depends on how far you are aswell. Because if you're too far and close to pushing baby out you won't get it. And yes afterwards you will have to share a room with other women but the curtains are pulled so you won't see them. If you want your own room check the birth centre out but that will mean no drugs only gas and air and you will have to have a water birth. Lots to think about x
@mum2sky Ohh I am glad that your little one is healthy and ok
I just called them today and told them I want a female doctor on the day they said we can't promise u that depends on what's available on your due date also they said even the room u might share it with other mums and the epidural injection u can't order it only if u need it will give it to u
I am really confused and don't know what to do
@zozo1990loly make sure you let them know in advance you don't want a man because I ended up with a man delivering my baby but I wasn't bothered, so let them know. Basically they told me my waters wasn't broken when they were and they took really long before I got to go home there was a lot of paperwork and not a lot of communication but my daughter was perfect and healthy and they helped me a lot with breastfeeding and changing her after so I can't fault them there x
@mum2sky and u r right I know priavet is expensive just need to make sure my baby will be ok I can't imagine something wrong will happen to him also I need a female doctor not a male I don't feel comfortable with the idea 🙈🙈🙈
@mum2sky really that's really good quencedence u will encourage me to give birth there just need to know what kind of issues u faced there? Is it coz of their service or something else ?
@ezchaz Ohh don't be sorry I am glad u shared your experience with me xxx
Just thought I'd add she was born at queen Charlottes and I was born next door in Hammersmith hospital lol it's a nice hospital c
My daughter was born there and they were so lovely and the food was nice. I had a few minor issues but overall the care was good. For private you're looking at 6,000 pounds plus it's very pricey and they add money on for scans etc x
Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital?
I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out...
Getting to the point where I don't think I want anybody at the hospital when I give birth
So girls give me more of ur advice on Castor Oil I am planning on taken it today or tomorrow morning so u can give birth on the due date. I heard mix reviews on it good and bad so I am confused lol but it's more good then bad. So girls tell me I really don't want to go over due 😩😢😢😢
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I know this is a dumb question and I know it's ok if it happens but I'm just curious, how many of you pooped when giving birth?? I'm a FTM and I wanna know how common it is
@mum2sky thanks alot my dear xxx