So I asked my grandad to be guarantor so I can move out and get my own money and sorted for baby coming he said no then said I were pregnant and didn't get congratulations I got told I were emotional blackmail that's something my mother would say so I'm very hurt so tomorrow women's aid, council and every help I can get to move out this dam flat! I even think this baby be better in care because I can't even look after myself and it has no hope for a mother like me! Scan Wednesday and I'm absolutely dreading it as I'm missing my mental health appointment to go scan just so fed up! Currently watching stuff on tablet then going bed before say/do something I regret!
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@ezchaz woman's aid said help me move and get stuff for place but just can't be guarantor if I can't move I can't apply for my own benefits as joint Esa claim with baby's dad now xx
@becky1111 yes I know there isn't its just they only put me in 2 bed for medical reasons and now I'm pregnant get stuck in 1 bed so will have to move again and I can't afford it nor can my health do it xx
@emz88lou226 nothing rong with a council house there a lot less stressful hun easier to pay the rent too I have bad mental health my self and having my son changed my life hun hope everything works out for you too xx
@ezchaz thanks chic just scared this depression will turn into postnatal or worse that postpartum syndrome xx
@katejohnson I've seen some lovely private houses but no one will help me and be guarantor xx
@ezchaz only 12 weeks but some days I don't want to be here let alone a mother to helpless baby xx
@becky1111 I will only get one will council but I can't afford to keep moving and my health can't take it it's very stressful moving and takes it out of me and I'm getting worse every year xx
I no how u feel, i was like this to. I have only just moved into my home yesterday and it feels fab!! Try to stay positive, message me if youd like? Xx
@katejohnson I hope just don't see light at end of tunnel right now xx
Aw no way hun u can do this hun go rest hun give yourself time to think u will get a place in the end and be a great mummy I am sure xx
Keep your head up, everything will work itself out! Xx
@ezchaz can't because living at same address I've asked my job centre advisor Friday if I want to claim universal credit I have to move out first even though pregnant and split up and separate rooms it doesn't count. I'd be better off own money unlike now as 30 quid for food that's it for fortnight and that's nothing had to go food banks few times xx