Sorry need a rant!
Why do men not understand women's emotions! I have gone through one hell of a change this week! I have moved out of my mum's who I am extremely close to and me and my partner have moved in together. We are only 2 minutes up the road from my mum but I am finding it terribly hard not seeing my mum and dogs. My mum has come up to see us every night and I go see my dogs everyday but it is different. I have 2 weeks left till I am due and find myself constantly crying. My boyfriend is extremely understanding one minute and then the next he is getting aggy because I keep crying and can't control it. I try to keep myself busy during the day but I wear myself out and get tired. He has now mentioned about calling it a day, however he will always be my friend and always be there for our daughter and it is down to me to decide. He isn't helping the situation! All I want to do is move home to my mum's. Our new place doesn't feel like a home to me although we have unpacked everything and only been here 5 days, I know it's early days but it doesn't feel like a home to me!
I don't know what to do!
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I was in the exact same situation when I was near the end of my pregnancy too! My boyfriend just didn’t understand because he wasn’t close with he’s family and he didn’t know what being part of a close family actually felt like, I felt like that until my little girl was born and then me and my boyfriend started to get along a lot better and our house felt like a home. I’d try not to worry too much he is probably finding it hard because he can’t help you and understand how your feeling and what your going though it’s a big scary and emotional rollercoaster that’s only just starting for you both, of just try and rest because you haven’t long left now hopefully things will get better for the both of you once your little one is here @simonecousins2307, xx
@ezchaz I just don't know what to do anymore for the sake of me and my baby. I think if he is like this now what's he going to be like when she is here and I get emotional xxx
@ezchaz I have tried to explain him that it's a big change for me and my hormones are all over the place and he comes back with I don't get why your crying all the time though. I think to myself "urm hello have you just listened to what I said?!" I have been hit with so much rubbish throughout this pregnancy and my mum has supported me all the way through it doesn't help me with wanting to go home xx
Hormones are a bloody nightmare! I have since found out he had drank a hole bottle of wine last night which wouldn't of helped matters along with going down the pub yesterday evening! I have spoke to him this week about not drinking too much in case I did go into labour he wouldn't be able to drive me! He hasn't gone to work this morning and has woken in a foul mood so there will be no talking to him today whilst he is like this 😔 xx