Thank for all the support for the past 2 weeks everything is still roar and hard just concentrating on my beautiful baby girl who turn 7 months at the weekend still not use to the single parent life but there is a light at the end of the tunnel and it will all be worth it. I never thought I'd be doing it all on my own dreamt of a perfect family but when I look back nothing was actually perfect far from it. It's hard alot harder than I thought but I'm pushing through and getting stronger day by day. This little girl is what keeps my going wouldn't imagine my life without her.
@beffgoude it definitely is. Being able to do things what I want and without being questioned about it and watching what I want on telly and no picking up after anyone it is good xx
@chloemcmahon96 i can imagine, but you'll be able to establish your own routines and ways of doing things without anyone questioning you. you'll be able to be your own person again and that must be a great relief.
@beffgoude thank you very much hun like I said it is hard very hard especially night times but now we have spilt it's easier to see all the faults we had between us and never wanted it to end cos I didn't want to be on my own but now it is over I have to cope and it will get easier over time. It's also surprising how much people change when you spilt with some true colours actually show xx
sometimes our judgement is clouded, we think we're happy and put up as it's easier than taking the step to do something for our actual self. Once your out of the situation you realise what you've put up with.
I'm so proud you took the step, you were brave and put yourself first, I wish you and your little'un all the best and all the happiness. You got this 💪❤