Does it make since to put my sperm donor on child support if he can’t keep a regular job? Dude work temp jobs and he either quit before it’s over or is fired he don’t hav a car and stays with his mother I’m taking care of my baby perfectly fine but I also didn’t make him by myself any advice ladies ? Cuz he do little to nothing for our son
My 4&5 yr old his. Not my 17 month old or the baby I'm pregant. With now. Their my man's I'm with now and he hates the fact I'm with him and don't know about the new baby.
@anthonysmommie072816 Not me, Let him creep and see what he lost. Haha
He only messages me if i post somthing about the boy's than he's all of a sudden daddy of the yr or somthing. Like, he has not seen them since Oct. Not complaining I don't wanna deal wirh him fine bye me.
@autism.mommy, lol girl i put his ass on block if he got something to say I told him tell his mama
@anthonysmommie072816, The boy's dad don't either. I decided if he can message me at a resonable time. I will not reapond back but I'll let him know I saw it. 😂😂😂
@autism.mommy, he don’t kno how to be civil I don’t want nothing to do with mines either but I ain’t make him by myself either
I didn't take my 2 older boy's dad for child support. And I don't plan on it at all. I want nothing to do with their dad. I have Full Physical Custody of the boy's he has no visitation nothing. I let him see them when he can be civil and do what my requirements are. Witch is only common sense.
@babyjay27, I’ve been trying hun even his gf told me he not gonna be doing much for our baby and that’s sad cuz she’s a mother herself me personally I couldn’t deal with a man who has said out of his mouth he’s not going to do anything for the baby
@taylormightknow, I don’t ask for nothing did u not read my post I could call him bitch ass nigga if I want to he not doing his fatherly duties there for it makes him a sperm donor
If you call him your sperm donor you shouldnt ask for anything from him.
@anthonysmommie072816, honestly I don’t blame you if it’s that bad. Everyone has their breaking point!
@shay2beautiful, I’m all about chances but he’s constantly disrespects me also n I was just taking it but girl I’m to my breaking point
@anthonysmommie072816, you’re absolutely right.
@shay2beautiful, he’s not trying to do better at all tho that’s the thing he sits on his fat ass n do nothing as much as I don’t want to if I have to (which it’s getting to the point to where I have too) put him on it I will that’s on him if he goes to jail his well being and his lively hood not my concern my child is n if it takes for him to sit in jail do take care of his responsibilities then by all mean let his ass sit. I’m tired of begging him to step it up I shouldn’t have to make a man be a man or a father
@anthonysmommie072816, he clearly can’t take care of himself or the child and then putting him on child support will on hurt him in the long run. Especially, since he can’t hold a job for long. Men get arrested everyday for back child support. When he get arrested though, you still not gone be able to get any money. I’d rather have my child’s father not be in jail so he can at least have that opportunity to do better with his life!
I would personally say not to do it.
I'd file anyway, just like you said, you didn't make this baby by yourself and you shouldn't have to do it all on your own, it isn't really a matter of money but of principle, if he'd step up maybe it wouldn't have even come to this.
Also, maybe this is the kick in the teeth he needs to get his life on track.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
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My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.

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@anthonysmommie072816, He's not said anything to me in a while.. He knows I won't play his game. Id block him real quick. And he knows.