Quick question: does it bother y’all if your man watches porn?
Yes kinda but when we both watch that’s a different story😁😁😁😁
@jleona, I always tell myself that I’m going to do something sexy but he’s not as sexual as me. I’m a total freak 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ tmi I know but he doesn’t bring the freak out of me if you know what I mean.
@missheatherbaby the same here I wasn't bothered by it before but until I caught him doing it bothered me a lot and I have suggested that we both watch it together because I do watch but I don't know how that would go we haven't tried it yet
@missheatherbaby that's annoying 😭😭😭 depending on how prideful you are I would say try to spice it up to show him you're still into him. Just put the kids to bed earlier than usual, make dinner or get some lingerie and blow his mind lol. See I'm very prideful so I never follow through with plans like that lol. But it seems like a nice gesture.
@jleona, he isn’t capable of talking really. He just gets crazy and says I’m doing to fucking much and stressing him out basically.
@mrsmord 😂😂😂 you sound just like me lol.
@missheatherbaby oh yeah, I would be frustrated too. We just went through something similar with affection in general and adding more kids to the mix makes it even harder to find that intimate time. I'm exhausted majority of the time so I get it. Have you guys talked abt it calmly where you were abt to express yourself or was it only when you were upset over it?
Pregnancy and sex is hard so i can’t blame you lmfao . But at this point I’m so jealous i hate when he even says hi to girls lmfao like to be polite . But whatever specially seeing them naked with sick tits and a tight ass with no hairnah chill
@jleona, he’s still lying about the porn. He said his friend sent him a link and he clicked it and watched it but that’s not what really happened. I saw the history on his internet. We haven’t been having sex that much because we are both tired and he feels like I don’t come on to him enough but I feel like he doesn’t come on to me like he used to so then I see this porn shit and I’m pissed off.
@mrsmord see that's exactly how I am .. but I'm never really up for it once I hit my second trimester so I try to just give him a pass and dnt look in his phone lol.
@missheatherbaby are you guys not having sex because he doesn't want to? Girl trust me, I had/have my moments but I would rather him look at porn instead of trying to get it elsewhere lol. But you're definitely not overreacting! It's how YOU feel and you have a right to feel however you want to.
Nah I’m super insecure and jealous so that shit won’t fly with me - if you want sex I’ll give you
@jleona, I seen it on his phone and I guess it bothered me because we haven’t been having sex as much as we normally do, but maybe I’m just overreacting and need to stop.
Yes, i cant stand the fact that he is looking at other women
Not really. Both pregnancies my sex drive has gotten very low so I didn't mind him watching because I wasn't giving him any lol. But he is very discreet abt it so most times I didn't even know.
Nope, sometimes hes in the mood and I'm not. 🤷🏻 He does his thing, I go to bed.
We only watch it when we are feeling extra frisky, we don't watch it by ourselves we don't feel a need to. We always want each other. Lol
@mrsmord, I didn’t think it would bother me but now that I caught him it does. 🤦🏻♀️
It bothers me, good thing he doesn’t (or if he does, idk and I’d rather not know lolol)
Nope i watch porn but not for sexual reasons. It’s hilarious to me. If I caught him watching it I wouldn’t say anything.
Nope not at all cause he only watches it if I don’t feel like having sex and he needs to go handle himself and he hardly watches it anyways
Nope. We watch it together sometimes.