Thats great that you know some tips on how to calm her(:

@pierced_momma Sometimes I will tell her that her throwing a tantrum is not ok and I also say I know you are upset but getting mad is not going to help anything out then I let her sit there and think about it and the she will come up to me and hug me.

You can try waiting a minute or two to see which she'll do, if it gets worse then don't ignore it and vise versa

@pierced_momma My daughter gets worse if I ignore it but other times she does fine if I ignore it and she'll go do something else. It all depends on what kind of behavior she has.

my daughter just turned 1 & i justbposted the same thing yesterday cus i cannot stand her! shes becoming too much & idk what to do

Addi started having tantrums at like 9 months

I learned that there are two types of babies when it comes to those things. Theres the ones that will throw a fit and get over it, and theres the ones that throw fit and get worse if it isnt acknowledged. My son is the same age and he'll throw a fit then ger over it if you distract him. My sister (9 months older) will throw a fit that gets worse if you ignore. So with my son, ill just let him finish and give him something to distract him. With my sister, ill grab her like a sack of potatoes on my shoulder and walk out of the store. People will stare if you ignore it, and people will stare if you don't ignore it. If they have kids theyll understand, but if they don't then they can't judge

@dashtikalin Lol that's hilarious!😂

Yeah mine inherited painting things with poop from his dad, so I am going to have tons of fun stories to tell when he is older 😂😂😂

@dashtikalin Haha when she acts like this she acts just like her daddy and when she is upset or mad she pulls her hair as well and I don't even know how to stop her from pulling her hair....she has my attitude but she has her daddy's anger problems well slightly mine as well but I wasn't that bad. I cant wait to tell her all the stuff she did when she was 1 lol

My son was that way! He was an absolute angel until about 1, and now he is a little troll haha. It's just part of them growing up and figuring out their personalities. Someday you'll have fun looking back and telling her boyfriend stories about how she was a little turd sometimes as a baby! 🤣 Haha

@dashtikalin Yeah true..I'll try ignoring her and see if that works she just recently started acting like this as well. And it's weird because she has never acted up and has always been super happy. Maybe it's just a growing phase she is going through right now.

So maybe try ignoring the bad behavior and rewarding good behavior. It takes a little while for babies to get used to the pattern, but they eventually understand and will adjust to the rules you set for them.

Sometimes if my son is really acting up, I just ignore him. People will always glare at you no matter what you're doing lol, some people just don't know how to mind their own business. It could be that she is acting out to get your attention. Maybe if you ignore her, she will get the message that mommy won't pay attention to her when she behaves that way. The good thing is that this kind of behavior won't last forever. Kids go through all kinds of crazy phases, but there's always an end to bad behavior eventually. It's hard, especially when she's in the middle of throwing a fit and you feel people's judgmental glares burning a hole in your back, but at the end of the day those jerks are strangers you will most likely never see again, and their opinion of you doesn't matter in the slightest!

@dashtikalin I think sometimes she just throws a fit because I tell her no or she thinks that it pisses me off which yes it does but it is more embarrassing because people always glare and stare when she does her public tantrums and I know people are always going to glare and stare..I have taken her outside until she calms down but the minute I go back inside she does the same thing over again...I do distract her with something else and she sometimes throws it out of my hands and says "no no no" sometimes me distracting her with something helps and sometimes it doesn't help.

The best thing you can do is talk calmly to them. If they see you are staying calm, it helps them relax. If your baby sees you getting anxious and frustrated, a lot of times it makes them feel more upset as well.

There's been a few times when my son started pitching a fit in public. How to handle it honestly depends on the situation. For me, a lot of times I will hold him and tell him to calm down, and if that doesn't work then I just let him finish throwing his fit and talk calmly to him/distract him with something interesting. If it's a really bad fit or he is being too disruptive to people around us, I will take him outside until he calms down. The first few times he made a scene in public I was mortified. But now I am just like "oh well, babies are babies and they throw fits sometimes" lol. Distracting him usually works for me, though. I've only had to take him outside a small handful of times, and that was mostly because we were somewhere like a restaurant or something.

@dashtikalin Yeah my daughter is a spit imagine of me! She is so sassy and is already saying "no" when she doesnt like something that im telling her. What do I do if she does this in public? She hasn't done it at the house yet.

It's definitely possible to have tantrums that young haha. My son was very sassy at that age. I would put him in his playpen for a few minutes if he decided to throw tantrums. Now he is way better behaved!