Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
**RANT** I’ve been dating a guy recently and him and his ex co parent (very well) there’s just a tiny thing that kind of eats at me. She’s always coming over and hanging out and cooking him/us dinner, and has stayed the night at his place a few times. Last night after he got off he went over to her place and got drunk and stayed the night. Note she has a bf herself and I know I don’t have anything to worry about but it just really bothers me because it’s very different than what I’m used to. I’ve always seen that ex’s are ex’s and you don’t need to hang out with them and stay the night and cook them dinner when you have your own bf and household to do that for. Me and him hang out once a week due to our work schedules and she’s always over either for half the time or the whole time so the only alone time we get is the car ride when he picks me up and drops me off. It’s getting to the point where I honestly dread hanging out w him Bc I know she’ll be there. I want to talk to him about it but don’t know how to come about it without seeming psycho. 😅😩
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Emily·
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Also, Your Son Is ADORABLE!!!
Emily·
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Omg!!! That job sounds amazing!!! I would totally work there. Also, that is a wonderful idea for you to let your husband come and hang out with his friends and get food and drinks. That is a great idea. The Tips sound amazing!!! He needs to let you do that. You are not a Hoe. I bet hoes don't even work there. That would be so much extra money you will be bringing to your home. For your Son!!
Rikki🌙·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@boymamachronicles @lovelily I agree with these ladies.
Jess🌹♥️·
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obviously insecure and doesn't trust you. some tips will be just bc you're attractive and he can't stand that. jealousy is an ugly trait 🙃
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He's worried you'll find another man there. Sounds like the jealous type. That's always a problem. He wants to control you. Fuck that. Go where the money is.
Katie Wolfe·
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Which you don’t dress inappropriately for the job either. It’s jeans and a T-shirt!
Katie Wolfe·
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@caylintay, I wish my fiancé would see it as more money and bettering r life and benefits for us to go out and be able to get things for our child but all he can see it as is “men checking out my ass”.
Caylin·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (15 нед.)
That seems a little controlling :/ everyone has their own situation but my husband would love if I had he opportunity to do something for myself plus benefit the household.