Yes. There are many different forms of love. However being in love and loving someone is two different things. I feel like I'm certainly in a similar situation but I don't want to elaborate too much on the comments u can inbox me tho if u wanna talk!

I actually think it's time to start saving for my own place and be on my own for a while. It's what I want. I think in thinking in in love with my kids father because I see he's a really good dad and he tries to make me happy. But we are too different and he's always had bad trust issues and he has never trusted me when I hung out with my friends or anything. I can't do it anymore. I think the healthy thing to do is be me on my own.

Anything is possible.

@isabellesmomma212, not true-thats like a parent having more than one child and saying they love one more than the other. Love is love, you can not categorize it. Its about perspective. Its an ancient practice called polyandry where a woman has more than one spouse.

@mariannespiess36, Start saving money when you can. Maybe just having that sense of independence will help you to realize you actually want/love the guy you’re with rather than needing him and feeling stuck. It also might be good for you to cut the other guy out of your life or distance yourself from him while you figure things out with the guy you’re with now.

I’m my opinion , You may be able to have love for more than one but not be “in love “with more than one at the same time.

Im with the father of both my kids, we got pregnant right away after meeting each other and been together ever since. Half the time I feel I love him, half the time I feel stuck, not for the kids but financially. I can't move out and be on my own, we are so tight on money as is.

And for the other, I feel like I've always loved him, he's been my best friend since middle school and we havnt done anything to cross any lines it's just how I feel. And I don't know if I should just ignore and contimue with my life as is or start making an effort to save money when I can. It's such a difficult situation. And the guy im with loves me just sucks little things to make a relationship stay strong and healthy. Does this make sense? I feel like I rambled

Not in a healthy way. You can love two people at once but only one of them do you actually love.

Not really. I've tried. Chances are they're both wrong for you.