Things are finally going to be getting better and less hostile. My step kids who hate my existence and been trying to get rid of me finally decided they want to go to 1.5 days at our home as to the 50/50 we do now. Praying it all works out with all of us one day. I don’t think I can handle one more week crying on the bathroom floor over how mean they are to me and my daughter when their father is gone at work. 🙏🏻😩
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@blakeslatinmama, I would love to work as one big unit. Show the girls that my husband and his ex can work together raising the girls without being together...a lot has to go into that from everybody...I’ve told them both from the beginning it would be best to do it that way but getting everyone on the same page is the difficult part. I’m just the step parent and can only do so much 🤷🏻♀️
Sounds like they need an old fashioned butt spanking. I got my butt spanked and I turned out great. And my daughter is polite to everyone. Even my boyfriend. She did get jealous a little over me having s new baby this September coming up. But she got over it and now she is excited.
@blakeslatinmama, he has tried everything. Time outs, grounding, taking things away, writing sentences...nothing seems to work. The past few weeks we have grown stronger in our relationship and I think the girls see it so now that they realize I’m not leaving my husband they don’t want to be here. We really don’t ask much other than to be kind, clean up their room / bathroom and keep grades up...I cook healthy and they see it as me being mean. I limit screen time...things I think are normal and how I raise my two littles they want no part of. The 8 year old screams in my 3 years face, pushes her just ruthless...says things like “we can’t eat out bc you don’t work” after taking them out to a trampoline park all day...or “ you still look pregnant “ I’m 95 lbs. the 12 year old will twist my words around and have a crying act to my husband but most of the time her stories don’t add up and don’t make sense so he just get frustrated with the lies ... I have tried so hard time and time again
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Bump pic. 14 weeks 2 days ! I'm showing alot earlier with my boy than I did with my girl !excuse the background, I'm at work, im a painter, and one of my workers said boss you're getting pudgy !! 😋😋 so I had to go take a look in the mirror!
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Ladies, I'm so freaking excited and happy right now that I am UGLY crying at work !! My doctor just called me because he got my blood results back, baby is good and I'm having A BOYYYY!!! I cant believe after all I've been through I finally get my boy !!! Thank you Jesus !!! I want to surprise Tim, any ideas of how I can surprise him for when he gets home from work tonight ??? Let's hear it.
#TEAMBLUE
It's my turn ladies!
Finally, after nearly FORTY-TWO weeks... I decided to get induced. Baby Violet scared me with some decreased fetal movement and I couldn't wait any longer.
@blakeslatinmama, I’m just feel blessed that my prayers have been answered and we are going to 1.5 days a week from 3-5 days a week