Definitely need to get this off my chest. My husband doesn't pay a lot in child support and now he's…

I get child support from my ex bi weekly and its 130 for two kids I dont ask for increases but that's not enough for two children buying clothes shoes and anything else they would need but I make due.

@ladee_jay she gets it biweekly as well and i would assume its not but we do all of that anything the kids need that child support can't cover we do it. Diapers wipes clothes co-pays. We have no problem doing it but when she's asking for enough for a car payment and car insurance and won't do anything to help herself how is it fair then? She didn't need a brand new car. We don't have a brand new car. We got a newer used one

@kittykatsmeow not sure but she does have to get around with the kids its not u all job to support her

@ladee_jay she had a paid off car. It was completely paid off. My husband paid it off for her when they split so she had a way for the kids. She decided she didn't like the car anymore and had to get a new one.

@kittykatsmeow oh wow smh

@uncouth they were never married. And no their daughter doesn't want to do it she was 3 and terrified of the horses and called him crying about it every lesson she's forced to go to

@uncouth we offered to pay for soccer basketball anything that their daughter wanted to do. He is complaining. He does a lot for her because of the kids. Even tried to be friends with her for the longest but she got mad he moved on and actually got married.

I’m going through the same thing with my SO & his BM . She gets 410 a month and right now she’s getting 205 bi weekly with SOs unemployment. During taxes she got 1700 from backpay he owed and instead of using it to buy stuff for her son for school or his activities she went and used that money to complete for a new car . Her car worked perfectly fine got her from point A to point B but she wanted a better one . Even after saying that my stepson has no clothes or shoes she didn’t use that money for him . Now she isn’t working so she’s taking him back to court to higher support because she can’t pay her bills . Yet she’s married to a man that makes 10x more than my SO makes . We’re living on 500$ bi weekly pay 300$ the most to at least not get our electricity cut off which rn we owe 2,500 in electricity bill alone. Plus our internet bill and needs for baby and us plus for food we barely even make it . We even tried to be friends with and offered to help her with whatever was needed for my stepson but is so damn petty that my SO is with me that she won’t even let him see him Some women just don’t know how to appreciate when they get offered help .

@blueezy23 honestly thats how she is. She's mad he actually married me and not her. And we found out after support got raised today that SHE WITHHELD HEALTH INFORMATION on their preemie.

@kittykatsmeow, wow that is so low 😱 idk how mothers can be so childish and can’t just live their life . Like he moved on you do too .. didn’t she get in trouble for that ?

@blueezy23 nope. And she's using her as an excuse for not working even though my husband got sent to a program to get a better job. Which that program is full of shit. I actually got him the better job.

@kittykatsmeow, wow the courts aren’t shit . My SO BM keeps him from him even tho court ordered he get visitation every other weekend . He’s called cops on her and taken her to court since she’s violating court orders and they did nothing to her smh

@blueezy23 they never do. And what's worse is we have something on her similar to a PFA but she can't do wrong in their eyes. She's posted that he can't die fast enough. And how he's a dead beat and its like bitch you make all of us other good mom's and mom's who wanna try look shitty