So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
FTM problems... So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It's making me sad. Like I wish I could quit my job and be home with her.
33 weeks 4 days today !! Had my appointment today for biophysical profile, and growth scan. At 28 weeks, she was in the 31 percentile, weighing 2 pounds and 1 ounce. Now she is in the 17th percentile, weighing 3 pounds and 1 ounce. I don't understand what I'm doing so wrong. 😢 my doctor will make me deliver if it drops to 10 or less, as she would be better out than in. Im 33 weeks 4 days, but my uterus is only measuring 31 weeks. Her heart rate was 132 today, her reflexes were great, she's a mover, her breathing movements were good, she had a few in a 30 minute period, they like to see atleast one in that timeframe. Also, my fluid level was at a 17, 10 to 25 is normal and she is head down in the birthing position. When we first started, she wasn't moving at all because she is stubborn like that, I swear she knows when she is getting an ultrasound and absolutely hates it. So the tech gave me two soft peppermints to get her to move , sure enough about 15 minutes later she was all over the place, first things first, her hands playing with her feet in front of her face just like last time. Lol she is something else, she must've liked the taste of the peppermint because not only did it get her to moving, but we could see her doing sucking motions with her mouth and sticking her tongue out. I love my silly girl, I actually have an ultrasound picture of that moment that I'm gonna share! My appointments are weekly now and im being monitored closely. I'm not sure what she scored on her BPP today, because my doctor was tied up with a delivery, so we will go over everything next Thursday following next weeks ultrasound as well as this one. I've been so down all day today.. sigh...
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
Well I Had My Daughter Today Literally Took Me 1 Hour & 35 mins & 2 Pushes & She Was Here ! 🥰💖💖 So In Love With Her & Her Name Is Anastasia ! It Happen So Fast & Had The Best Experience! And She Was 7 Pound 10
M. P. ·
@babeylarissa, yeah I don’t blame you lol
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
@noahs.mommy, well its cus the first one was so nasty! it was posted for free on facebook & i cleaned it as much as i could but it had deep scratches! & this one i got it for 20$ on facebook & cleaned it & was perfect & this one at the store is like 60$
M. P. ·
@babeylarissa, but if she liked her high chair she had before it could honestly be the chair and she’s just over reacting like I would at her age
M. P. ·
@babeylarissa, it’s okay I have a bratty son 😂
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
@noahs.mommy, @eryka616, oh my god so my daughters just a brat. i have a bratty daughter guys. lol
M. P. ·
@babeylarissa, also when I was her age I would cry and scream and hold my breath until I passed out it was a normal regular thing for me and all my parents were told to do what keep my head up so I could breath and couple minutes later I was up and fine lol if she does that don’t freak out just keep her head up until she wakes up and she’ll be fine
M. P. ·
@babeylarissa, no she can sit in a booster seat at the table! They have ones that strap to the chair and then have a crotch only belt(I don’t know how to explain those lol)
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
@eryka616, until she gets over it?? what about the not breathing part? thats what worries me the most
Eryka·
She’s doing it to act out. I’m sorry you just have to keep telling her she can’t do that.
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
@noahs.mommy, no i havent tried that! i thought that was like for when they could walk? cus she can sit on her own!
M. P. ·
@babeylarissa, has she tried sitting at the table? Like a big girl with a booster seat?
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
@noahs.mommy, yeah! to the point where they like go off her shoulder lol so idk whats the problem!! even putting the table top like a little farther away from her everything!!
M. P. ·
@babeylarissa, have you tried loosening them a little bit more?
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·