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Tiffany Eason
Tiffany Eason
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'm all for the different parenting but I just wanna know your thoughts.... not my view of parenting just saying 🤔 btw…

I'm all for the different parenting but I just wanna know your thoughts.... not my view of parenting just saying 🤔 btw that's a boy.....

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mommamia18

Marie Rose

🤔🤔🤔🤔

mrsm82218

Michelle

How would he know that he wants to dress like that he’s 5 lol

mrsm82218

Michelle

Maybe he’s a little older but not much. At that age he doesn’t know what close he wants I mean would he?

xmoonxkissedx

M H K S

Um. No. Hell no. I stand firm when I say doing such a thing is an ADULT decision, not one a child makes. When I see this stuff, I believe it's influenced by the parents. Which I personally think is a fucked up thing to do, but there is nothing anyone can do.

theycallmemommy

Steph

Personally, I would not be ok with my son dressing that way. I am all for encouraging my boys to do what they like but that’s a big one for me. When they are adults and they want to chose the dress like a woman then, they can do as they please but I wound not be encouraging this.

hollyblue

Jessica C.

Мама сына (3 года)

We raise Bear gender-neutral. He has full control of his self-expression and gender presentation, whatever that may be. I can speak from experience that being forced into conforming to gender roles does far worse things than supporting a childs self expression. That being said, forcing a child into any manner of expression is harmful so if - big if - he was forced into this, thats just as bad. But if it is his choice, then as a parent, I have to honor his/her/their identity and expression.

ohbabybaby88

Samantha

Personally for me I agree with @trailer_trash_queen In saying that the parents have a lot of influence on these kind of decisions. I really can't for the life of me understand a 5 year old child being confused about their identity/gender… it just doesn't seem like it works that way. I have an issue with parents who don't want to put a gender on the birth certificate too.. I think it's causing all the confusion. My son will grow up to do and be whatever he pleases, whatever he feels is right and I'll support him. when hes grown until then..

anap1012

Ana Perez

Мама троих детей

If it was his choice then it’s fine. I wouldn’t really like it but f my child wants to dress a certain way then idc 🤷🏻‍♀️

ladyblauvelt

Allyson Almeda

If he chose to wear that then she's just respecting his decision... He may be young but even my 2 year old can pick out the shirts and clothes he likes and wants to wear, he's got a couple favorite shirts that he wants to wear all the time. That's him making the decision to wear it and as long as it's clean I let him. This boy probably just likes how those clothes feel when he wears them and is comfortable with them and like how they look. People view girls wearing boy clothes as completely normal and think maybe she's just a tomboy or maybe it's her boyfriends shirt or hoodie how sweet, there's rarely ever anything wrong with a child dressing in the opposite genders clothes then, so why should it be any different for a boy? Just my opinion...

tutusandtouchdowns

Caylin

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (13 нед.)

It is way too early for this 😂😴

martinez.rubi

Rubi

I would be ok with whatever MY son wants to wear , it’s his choice so I don’t see a problem with it neither does my husband.

tiff.momma.love

Tiffany Eason

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I do alot if research and analysis alot of shit to know this generation is fucked, in not buying he want this so she's respect his wishes smh I've never came across nothing like this growing up and when I did the boys was already old enough to make they own decisions. I grew up a tomboy but that was because I grew

Up with a lot of brothers and dressing tight wasn't my thing at the time I didn't want attention from boys I was focused on school but now it's all about attention and making kids feel comfortable I don't see a baby saying they want a blue or pink blanket unless that's what their used to or forced upon by parents....I'm still trying to understand what make this generation so free and ok all of a sudden but back then it was never ok 🤔

freckly

Alexis Jordan

В ожидании первенца

I feel like celebrity parents do it for attention. Cuz it's crazy how ONLY celebrity children "choose" to dress opposite gender. And they're all soooo young. I don't think it's real in the media. They just want to look like awesome parents for allowing their child to wear what the want and still love them. But personally I've seen at my job a couple of boys come in dressed like a girl bc they want to. And you can tell it was their choice bc outfits aren't put together very well and stuff but it doesn't bother me knowing they actually chose it. If they pointed out an opposite gender outfit at the store they wanted then I'd consider it. But I wouldn't take them to that clothing section EVERY time I went to buy them clothes just bc I know they like it. I'd go to their gender's and see if they find something they like there.

leahmommy

Chanel

Мама дочки (1 год)

If he wanted to wear a dress then it's his choice.. from experience I always was a Tom boy and my mom never stop me from wearing sneakers and boy clothes

del_1532049943_coffeemomm

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Who the hell knows . girl. Omg

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be…

Transgender children So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are your thoughts on the matter? Do u think the parents are behind this? Idk because I haven't met the parents or children. I just think at 5 it's very young for children to really understand. What do u ladies think?