I'm sorry in advance for this rant. I moved out of my boy friends a year ago and recently came back. Within that year he had his brothers friend move in, wasn't supposed to be for long and he's still here. He gives only $100 to my boy friend outta his check and helps with NOTHING ELSE. Comes home from work and sits on his ass playing his x-box. There no extra bed in the spare room so he keeps his clothes in there and acts like the living room is his room so I'm constantly stuck in our room. I'm currently looking for a new job and until than I'm the one to keep the place clean, food cooked, etc. But this past week I've had enough of it, only because I'm tired of doing EVERYTHING while he just sits on his ass playing games like I'm his wife or slave. Can't even clean his own mess!! Can't even take out the garbage! I'm also the type of person to I don't like to do house cleaning when someone's just sitting on this ass ALL DAY! Bugs the crap outta me! I want to be able to decorate the spare room for the baby but can't! I have talked and talked to my boyfriend about it and he does nothing about it, just says "What kick him on the street". No I'm not that heartless but I want OUR little family and No one else here when the time comes, tell him to start looking for his own place! Again im sorry I just needed this off my chest!
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Oh man yeah I feel that. I do whatever I can to avoid fights. It gets turned around on me and I’m manipulated into being the bad person. Girl I feel that. Well you’re just gonna snap then. I can tell you that and it won’t be pretty.
@icomplainalot If i did that there would be a fight with me and my man and I'm trying to keep it fight free lol. (Not physical fighting) even told my man if things don't get better soon and I start working I feel like I will end up snapping and telling this dude to move back to his grandma's.
Girl I’d be like GET OFF YOUR ASS PICK UP YOUR SHIT OR YOU’RE STAYING IN THE STREET FOR THE DAY. And really make it only a few hours. Gotta teach boys lessons sometimes
@yestatipa if I didn't have such a big heart I would prolly kick him lmao
@icomplainalot I Have Been, I even told him before I moved back here I could already see this would be a problem he swore it wouldn't. But here we are. I even talked to the roommate about helping and he's still doing nothing. It's to the point where all I feel like I'm doing is nagging and like I'm the bad person but I know that's not it.
How about you take baby steps? Not trying to kick the guy out yet. But talk to your man about talking to him about cleaning. Because you’re pregnant and it’s hard on you.
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