I'm sorry in advance for this rant. I moved out of my boy friends a year ago and recently came back. Within that year he had his brothers friend move in, wasn't supposed to be for long and he's still here. He gives only $100 to my boy friend outta his check and helps with NOTHING ELSE. Comes home from work and sits on his ass playing his x-box. There no extra bed in the spare room so he keeps his clothes in there and acts like the living room is his room so I'm constantly stuck in our room. I'm currently looking for a new job and until than I'm the one to keep the place clean, food cooked, etc. But this past week I've had enough of it, only because I'm tired of doing EVERYTHING while he just sits on his ass playing games like I'm his wife or slave. Can't even clean his own mess!! Can't even take out the garbage! I'm also the type of person to I don't like to do house cleaning when someone's just sitting on this ass ALL DAY! Bugs the crap outta me! I want to be able to decorate the spare room for the baby but can't! I have talked and talked to my boyfriend about it and he does nothing about it, just says "What kick him on the street". No I'm not that heartless but I want OUR little family and No one else here when the time comes, tell him to start looking for his own place! Again im sorry I just needed this off my chest!
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Oh man yeah I feel that. I do whatever I can to avoid fights. It gets turned around on me and I’m manipulated into being the bad person. Girl I feel that. Well you’re just gonna snap then. I can tell you that and it won’t be pretty.
@icomplainalot If i did that there would be a fight with me and my man and I'm trying to keep it fight free lol. (Not physical fighting) even told my man if things don't get better soon and I start working I feel like I will end up snapping and telling this dude to move back to his grandma's.
Girl I’d be like GET OFF YOUR ASS PICK UP YOUR SHIT OR YOU’RE STAYING IN THE STREET FOR THE DAY. And really make it only a few hours. Gotta teach boys lessons sometimes
@yestatipa if I didn't have such a big heart I would prolly kick him lmao
@icomplainalot I Have Been, I even told him before I moved back here I could already see this would be a problem he swore it wouldn't. But here we are. I even talked to the roommate about helping and he's still doing nothing. It's to the point where all I feel like I'm doing is nagging and like I'm the bad person but I know that's not it.
How about you take baby steps? Not trying to kick the guy out yet. But talk to your man about talking to him about cleaning. Because you’re pregnant and it’s hard on you.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I need to vent I'm so tired of this man I swear if we were married right now I would bury his ass. So I'm trying to get dress and my son is coming off the bed mind you this house is wood floor and wood every thing in this bedroom. Well this fool I call my fiancé was watching my child come off the bed and just watch him fall back off the edge hitting his head on the hard wood floor and when I pick him up trying to calm him down. He wants to get mad at me because I won't pass him MY crying son ple...
I can't wait to pack Christians baby bag. sad that I can't start putting things up for his room. cause he doesn't have one :(
omg I'm sooo bored.... what is everyone doing? I should sleep but I'm irritated with baby dad cuz he can never sit his ass in the house 😤😠😲
Does your SO ever notice?!?
Does your SO/DH notice when u do things around the house?!?! I ask because I dropped the kids off at school this am then spent about 3 of my 4 free hours cleaning the entire downstairs. Living room, dining room, powder room and kitchen. Like scrubbed counters, toilets moved couches vacuumed and mopped everything. My house was sparkling clean when he got home and didn't even notice!!! Like wtf I just spent hours cleaning u would think he would at least notice but no w...
You are right!!! He needs to move out and your bf needs to talk to him. It would be a different story IF he contributed more then $100 a month PLUS pay some of the utility bills.... unless he dont shower, dont eat, dont use electric... etc! For which im sure he does! Now is a good time. The right thing to do is just let him know that the babus coming and you guys need the spare room. And that he needs to start looking for a new place and move out.