Stressing out found out payday is the 6th but my check is going to be mailed to me I have a land…

You can't talk to them to see they understand your situation.?

@katygrace I hate talking to her she yelled at me last time I tried to talk to her and we're already 2 months behind I'm just pissed off at my husband for doing this to me he's nit helping and I've only worked 1 day last week and scheduled 1 day this week I'm just so lost I wish I had family to help me out I don't want to lose my home

I can not believe what I'm reading.😒😧😦 What is your husband doing? Not helping his wife. Now that is irritating. Dont he care at all?

Your at least trynna work and he's like "I don't care at all." Its like saying "YOU PAY IT OFF YOURSELF." I JUST CANT. LORD FORGIVE ME FOR THESE negative thoughts.🤦🏽💆🏽

Where is your family? You need to see if they can help with at least a little of something. I doubt they want to see you homeless.

No grown man should be laying there watching you struggle.

@jasmine.moore7509 Amen to that!!!💆🏽

@katygrace he don't care he just wants to give up and sit on Craigslist all day and drink with his friends and no my family just tells me they don't have money but their always going on vacations or partying yes I know they work and deserve to do what they want just no one cares instead just want to question me about everything

@toshagager smh.☹

MOTHERFUCKER BETTER DONATE PLASMA OR SPERM OR SOME SHIT to help you. This is ridiculous. You have how many kids? And he's doing what exactly? No man would let his children or the woman he loves go homeless EVER. A man does what he has to do to get shit taken care of. That is one of the biggest reasons I respect my man so much. He has been working since the day he turned 15 and has never been jobless. He has done and will do whatever needs done for me and our family. That's why I clean and cook and for the majority take care of our son. Because he works HARD and loves us so much he would never let us go without. That is the only way and reason why it works and that we are such a strong couple. We understand and respect and love the other one's role because we both know we couldn't do it alone. Not bragging just explaining that it HAS to be 50/50. An equal partnership and it breaks my heart to see you and your kids struggling due to him having no concept of this.

@tavi.young it hurts me to I know I've made mistakes in the past but so has he he expects so much out of me and I'm just exhausted idk why he wants to be lile this we've been together for 14 years almost half of my life every day I just want to cry I just don't know what happened to him

Oh, honey! :( That is no way to live! Forgive and forget is the only way. But you both have to keep moving forward. Do you think it could be a communication issue? That is where I have always struggled in relationships. Communicating my emotions is very difficult so I get frustrated when my partner doesn't just know (ridiculous and irrational I know) but that's how I function. I've gotten way better and thank gosh for my partner's patience and understanding. We all make mistakes but they don't define us. You can be a smart person that has made a stupid decision without being a stupid person. Do you feel like you two talk enough? And about real issues not just small talk

@tavi.young I'm always trying to talk to him idk why he wants to do this to us and our family I came home after my 1st day at work tried to tell him about it but he was playing a game so I gave up and left to do something for work and he only wants to talk about stupid things and tells me I have to figure it out on my own he's done trying just like I'm waiting for him to come home so I can take are son to the doc and I still have to go to my sis to do an online class for work

That is so frustrating. He obviously is going through something. Be mindful that he may need a little slack but not this much. I would say" I can't feed our kids or pay our rent and you aren't helping so get off your ass or I'm pawning your game station and all your little games too." Maybe not that mean but you see my point. He has to make some effort. If you work you better come to clean fed kids dinner made and a foot massage waiting. ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU ARE PREGNANT! He has to do his part. I'm currently out of college (which my fiancé considers comparable to working since I'm working towards a better paying job in the future for us plus I get paid to go to school) So since I took the semester off to have our son and bond with him before I go back I do any and everything for my fiancé. House is always spotless dog is alwa7ys clean and happy. Baby is fed clean and taken care of. I always offer to make his favorite food or deserts to let him know I appreciate him working so hard to support us. Foot massage, back massage anything he needs because he's pulling most of the weight right now. When I go back things will change a little. And when I start working it will switch. It isn't or shouldn't be a gender thing, it is a separation of the incredible stress you are both under when it comes to running a household and family. Most men take issue with this.