Before bed rant: as a FTM you never know what or how things will work with your child. The situation is confusing,…
Before bed rant: as a FTM you never know what or how things will work with your child. The situation is confusing, stressful & unbearable. I feel like there are too many “do this” or “im doing it this way” people as opposed to “I think you should” “maybe you should try this” people. My daughter is 1 & I feel at a certain point she should know that no is no, that leave it means leave it or that you won’t get your way during a mini break down. A lot of people might disagree but im trying my best to atleast START showing her certain discipline. Of course dad & others don’t agree whether it be with “cry it out” or trying not to let her do what she wants and that’s when things get complicated. What’s right for you won’t be right for anyone else but as parents we need to come into agreement with each other/ S.O and speak on how OUR children will be raised up & what are the most important points. Opinions are always appreciated, slick comments or telling me how to raise my child will not be tolerated. I am a FTM & will find a balance to raise my daughter im just hoping it gets easier from here.
Nitza 👑·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@chasha2017, that’s true they are curious but some things are good to start now I mean eventually they’ll catch on lol and exactly yesterday I tried doing something with my daughter and it was like “why you doing that” or “omg” I did it for fun she won’t remember at all so I’m ok
Nitza 👑·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@zealous, like I said opinions are always welcome just don’t tell me WHAT to do or HOW to do it. at this point it’s annoying
Sha·
True. My son is the same way. I'll tell him "no, don't touch" but he's just so damn curious he has to touch it anyway lol. Sometimes he listens, sometimes he doesn't 🤷🏽♀️ I think you should do what works for you. Don't let anyone tell you how they think you should raise your own child. People are so quick to judge and give unwanted opinions, especially to FTM or younger moms. It's so annoying like, ok but did i ask for your opinion tho? 🙄
zealous·
Мама сына (1 год)
My son is about to be 2 n never slept threw the night n barely eats ppl always trying to tell me do this n that so i feel the same way everybody is different if im not asking for help dont offer