Before bed rant: as a FTM you never know what or how things will work with your child. The situation is confusing, stressful & unbearable. I feel like there are too many “do this” or “im doing it this way” people as opposed to “I think you should” “maybe you should try this” people. My daughter is 1 & I feel at a certain point she should know that no is no, that leave it means leave it or that you won’t get your way during a mini break down. A lot of people might disagree but im trying my best to atleast START showing her certain discipline. Of course dad & others don’t agree whether it be with “cry it out” or trying not to let her do what she wants and that’s when things get complicated. What’s right for you won’t be right for anyone else but as parents we need to come into agreement with each other/ S.O and speak on how OUR children will be raised up & what are the most important points. Opinions are always appreciated, slick comments or telling me how to raise my child will not be tolerated. I am a FTM & will find a balance to raise my daughter im just hoping it gets easier from here.