Is it wrong of me to be a little upset at my mom for saying "happy elopement anniversary" to us on her Facebook page. It's my husband and I anniversary we we're already engaged for months I'm sorry if this is tmi but I didn't have insurance at the time and I was having internal bleeding the doctors didn't know where it was coming from so I've been in the hospital already for this 3 times before and now they wanted to do a colonoscopy. Instead of paying for another medical bill with out insurance my husband 4 years ago woke up and asked me if I wanted to marry him that day. I made sure he was sure and we went to City Hall :) he couldnt stand me not being able to get a test I need because I didn't have insurance because my job didn't offer one. We tried to ask family if they could come obviously with it being so sudden not a lot could make it. My mom was in Florida at the time I explained to her how I was in the hospital and in so much pain but she didn't care she still told me that she was disappointing in me for not having her there. So every year I get the "happy elopement anniversary" from her and I get upset. We even had a wedding that September with everybody, I don't know I'm looking for advice on what to do with her and if I should even be upset at this or am I just over reacting? Thank you in advance :)
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@charmed040309 I need to learn how to not care to much honestly that's one of my faults when it come to my family and their acceptance :p
@eileen0625 of course. No they haven't approved of the relationship, but i think they tolerate it. I honestly don't care what they think lol. Exactly just say thank you and move on
- Sure thing ! I’m always up for being a friend.
@charmed040309 thank you for the advice I hope they ease up on you about the kids I'm glad you guys are happy :) I know she is hurt but she should be able to rationalize the situation I would think, I think your right to ignore it. I thanked her but I don't think I'm going to bring it up to her
@beccaaalynnn11 thank you. We have been going through a lot my mom and I and I've been doubting myslef as you can tell thank you for the reassurance :) and kinda if you want I can pm you about it :)
She sounds hurt, but i would ignore her. That's like my dad and his wife who constantly say that i want more kids even though I've told them were done at three. I get hurt, but i ignore their comments. As long as your happy that's all that matters
- No. Your mom is being petty.. I’d delete her post. Water off a ducks back.
Happy anniversary love, sounds like a real keeper. (: Did you figure out what was up? Are you feeling better ?
@eileen0625 I'm the same way and I'm still trying to teach myself that. Then my fiance will tell me they'll never change and that I'm beautiful and they're jealous