Nothing to lower ur mental health than a screaming baby in your face

i dont even care how bad this sounds, why did you have/keep the baby if your always this negative about everything to so with the baby? your a month in its hard i know, but no matter how hard it is you made the choices. my sons 6m still not sleeping threw the night still having a crying fit something in the day but id never give him up, i rarely get frustrated because the good outweighs the bad. and no i had no help either my sons father left right after he got my pregnant so iv been by myself for over a year.

Ya the first 3 months I found super hard. She's 8 months now and it is so much easier then when she was a newborn

It really does get easier. Just think positively, and maybe talk to a dr. Remember this is the hardest stage. Eventually your baby will sleep 12 hours a night, and take naps during the day. You will have time for yourself. But I really hope think talking to someone might help you, and get as much support and help whenever you can. We all needed it

@ib.crazyskittles18, yes this age is easier. They become more independent with EVERYTHING. The sleeping part is the only thing for me that was easier when he was a newborn because he did sleep all the time and I could do the same but now he sleeps all night takes 2 naps a day and I choose to nap with him. He’s independent now so he plays with his toys and watches his movie and chooses who he wants to sit with when he gets a bottle. He goes to bed the same time every night with a baba and his blanket and Mickey and he deals with himself from then on. It IS easier than when he was a newborn, my son had colic I had to stop breastfeeding after 2 weeks and formula messed him up I had to figure shit out and I was frustrated and stressed out and needed a lot of help. Now? All that’s gone. He has no colic no problems and I’ve got this mom thing down. It’s 1,000 times easier him being 14 months old than it was when he was 1-4 months old

@mommy.to.sterling the teething stage is easier? The "terrible two" are easier? Raising a moody teenager is easier? Yea i dont think so i know im super negative but also just being realistic cuz it never gets easier tbh thats just a false thing happy people say

@ib.crazyskittles18, You’re only a month in, hun. Right now, your hormones are everywhere. It’s okay to cry. Have you had you’re postpartum check up yet? Maybe talk to the dr about what you’re feeling.

In the meantime, take a second and look at your baby boy’s face. You made that. Study and kiss his little fingers and toes.

@mommaofjais good moments dont outweigh the bad at all even before i had him i cry on a weekly basis

Being a mom is a tough job. Especially in the beginning when you’re trying to adjust. But you will get through it and the good moments will always outweigh the bad ones.

@mommaofjais hmm define "got this"

You’ve got this, mama! ☺️