So I found out that my older sister is pregnant with her second child. I want to be happy for her…

@theirmommytiara That is so sad, I'm sorry you have such a difficult relationship with her. And I feel especially sorry for those poor babies :(

I have an older sister but she's the epitome of a success story and I'm well, more of the disappointment lol Even with the problems I have I could never have put my son's life in jeopardy like that.

Sadly, she's going to have to want to change first before she can get sober. :/

@leroydoom I was going to call CPS myself but my mom said to leave it alone somebody else will call. I let my sister know one day that I was going to call and she said that she was going to call them on me and my kids father because I smoke weed for my depression and anxiety but it's not an everyday thing. Honestly still was going to call but when my mother told me to not get involved I didn't. I just feel like she'll never change she's going to end up getting some bad coke or crack and is going to mess her up, Plus she prostitutes herself. Her baby father is probably not even her baby father and he buys the drugs for her knowing that she's pregnant. I feel like she doesn't deserve to be anybody's parent. My family is in so much denial they try to say the reason why she picked up doing the drugs is because my niece's father cheated on her and had a baby I believe she was doing the drugs before that happened it might have pushed her over the edge though but she was already doing it.

@theirmommytiara If you feel it in your heart, call. Use someone else's phone, tell them you want to stay anonymous. Hell, get a friend to call if you don't want to go against your mom. It sounds like her kids would be better off in a healthier environment.

@theirmommytiara Who knows, if losing her kids helps her get her head right and get her life together, even better. But those kids, hun, they're innocent in all this <3

You need to call do it anonymously and don't tell anyone you're doing it

@damiensmommy1117 @leroydoom I don't know where she lives so I will have to reach out to my niece and hopefully hope that she would give me the correct address. They got put out of their apartment because my niece's father stop paying the rent because she had another man living in there... right I think about the unborn child as if it was mine.. will they take her baby when it come out and they see that the baby is having withdrawals?? Or will they let her take the baby home? My niece is 14 and she is the adult of that house they're going to worry her into a early grave

@mama_of_one when I found out the address I will I honestly should have been did it when it was just my niece going through it. I just didn't want to go against my mother or grandmother.

@theirmommytiara fuck them for not thinking of your nice seriously. How can your mom let her granddaughter live like that

@mama_of_one they was trying to get my niece but they didn't try to go through the court system. So my niece will come over their house if you would only be there for a couple of days then her mother would make her come back home. They tried to get her father involved I even tried to reach out to him and let him know what was going on he never reach back out to me. So every time my niece comes to my grandmother house she's only there for a little while until her mother makes it seem for her to come back home. I have even told my niece that she can come and stay with me if she really wanted to and if I had to I would go to court to fight for her but I don't think she wants to leave her mother because she's afraid her mother is going to OD so she always wants to keep an eye on her.

Still fuck them for not going all the way like they should @theirmommytiara

@theirmommytiara do what you need to do and fight for those poor kids if that means cps and possible court then do so.

@theirmommytiara That's too much responsiblility, I know because I've been there with addict parents, she needs out of that situation asap, she's too young to be making those kinds of decisions, she may not want to leave her mom now but its for the best, her adult life has a greater chance of drug addiction and mental illness as it stands without early intervention. I genuinely fear for her girl. I hope you can get your sisters real address and I sincerely hope you or your family can take in your niece and her little brother/sister in. <3

@mama_of_one @leroydoom I will, do you think they will give them to me I have a physical disability but I do have three children of my own I'm a great mother. I just don't want the courts to look at me but only see my physical disability. I honestly think I'm going to be the only one that tries to get them I don't think my family will step up.

@theirmommytiara no if you're willing to step up and have the space for them then you should have a good chance they rather place with family then foster care trust.

@theirmommytiara To be honest, I dont know.

I personally feel if you can provide a roof over their heads, somewhere warm for them to sleep, lots of love and guidance, your physical disability shouldn't matter.

All you can do is try your best when the time comes hun. I think even if they're placed elsewhere you can still visit them (when my brother was in state care at 16/17 I was able to pick him up to spend the night at my house for the weekend)

@mama_of_one @leroydoom thanks ladies I'm going to pray on it and hopefully I can take the necessary steps on Monday if I get the address.

@lana2018 thanks for the clarification. I kind of wanted to call Family court to see what would have to be the necessary steps. I just wanted to get them until she got herself together. I was kind of hoping that would help her want to get herself together if the courts took them from her.