My 2year old and I had a bad day today 😔 *disclaimer*I don't pop/hit/woop what ever anyone would like to call it .
It was my first outing with both my children
my husband asked me are you sure you want to take them both I said yea I'm fine we are good
...... Well I was wrong we went to my friends baby shower she is pretty much the only friend that I have in VA
Antonio thew a fit the whole time even when he was playing with the other kids he was falling out on the floor flailing, crying, screeming throwing stuff, going though her presents I told her I was just going to take him home she said it's ok he's 2 he will find something to calm him please stay 😢*sigh* it was very embarrassing 😲people were looking at me and wispering. I'm trying to give him toys or his learning DVDs the only way I could calm him down was because this lady (apparently she is a professional clown) had bubbles in her purse I spent like 2 hours blowing bubbles and saw none of the baby shower. When we got to the car I expressed my disappointment and I can tell he felt bad😩. When I picked my husband up from work the only thing I could say about my day with tears rolling down my face ....
Am I a good mother 😿 I felt so bad a bout so many things I couldn't calm my son I couldn't control my emotions and I made my son feel bad
If you couldn't tell I'm the calm one i all ways look at the good and the bad I weigh my options and think about different results I like to know what to do I hate not knowing ......
I know it's just one day
I know sometimes children have these days
I have seen it happen to other moms in public
I pride myself on how happy my son is and how much he learns every day
Then why do I feel this way 😩
sorry I felt you guys would understand better then my old high school acquaintances and old co-workers on face book
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@tiredmom thank you so much you know before I had children I didn't care about how other people saw me but now I realize I still dont mind but what I care about mostly is how people will see my son sorry for typing more I just still feel bad
You're a good mom. You didn't loose your shit and yell at him for being a kid like some people would. You tried everything you could to get him to calm down. Kids have bad days too, and they always seem to happen at the worst times.
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