I'm beyond hurt. Ever since I found out I was pregnant his family has always greeted me as the mother to their first grandbaby. When I gave birth they visited the hospital for and hour and complained that that wasn't enough time. A couple days later I was in the ER due to compilations with the pregnancy. Never once did they ask if I was okay..they just hounded us to see the baby. Now we are going over there tonight because they want to see her. I've never felt like I was an actual person to them..and I'm expected to keep a smile on my face. I get that it's their first grandchild...but what am I? All of this really hasn't helped with PPD.
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@muva.tings2018 he has talked to them multiple times n they have blamed it on me
Have you asked him to step in and talk to them about the way they are acting? They can't treat you like all your there for is pushing out a kid for them. Sometimes people don't realize they are being hurtful.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@mollyfulton1996 yikes. I mean idk how to handle a situation like that without forcing them to understand unless they stop treating you like all you were good for was being a baby making factory they can't see your child. But, he'd have to have your back on that 1000% and make sure they knew he's just as upset as you are. They should feel ashamed they didn't even ask if you were okay.