I am delivering my baby in 6 days and I still don’t have support from her father or his family....he’s played this game with me my entire pregnancy of being here and not being here and what makes it worst is that he cheated on me which caused another child to be born three months before mine. Sometimes i don’t know how to feel or what to think. I try everyday to be strong for myself and my child but all i ever feel is guilt and embarrassment for loving someone who could care less about me or my well being. 😒
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@verguinia, well I’m moving back home so I’ll probably talk to her then
@danyale_17 if you don't want to talk to her you can write a letter and send it and tell her that you might not be perfect but a baby is a blessing from God and you would love her to be a part of the baby life and can't imagine having the baby not know her own grandma and put true feeling and emotions in there and wait for a response :)
@verguinia, yeah my best friend who i tell everything to and who has helped me everyday of my pregnancy told me to talk to my mom and tell her what I’m actually going through
@danyale_17 she might judge you but when the baby is born she gonna fall in love with her maybe you should tell her she might react totally different then you think :) my mother actually hasn't talked to me for two years still doesn't call or or communicate with me but I will send her a picture of the baby when I have her and I will send her an ornament that I'm making for the baby's birth ! Sometimes people don't tell you how they really feel but it softens thier heart without them knowing your mom might actually start helping you
@beerus, i know what I’m feeling won’t go away over night or months or maybe even years but maybe all i need to see is my baby girl and look her in the eyes and that’s when my healing can begin
@verguinia, you guys are literally my support group because being separated from my family is not easy and sometimes i don’t want my mother to know everything because sometimes i think she judges my decision making of men in my life
@beerus, thank you sooo much...i can’t even explain how much i needed to hear that because my worst fear is depression and i refuse to go through that because of someone else
Be strong I went all by myself my baby father left when I was eight months his family left me too I only had my mother and she used to bully me and I lived with her but I had no choice but to live with her! Look you can do it be strong I know you love him but you know it gets better you going to find better think positive your situation right now is temporary you can go in any direction you choice walk towards happiness only always !!!!
@newlywedmama21, dreams are horrible like going to sleep at night is what makes it worse
It's hard but honestly u just have to step up and take on his role. U don't need to be miserable worrying about what he is or isn't going to do. I'm speaking from experience. Only he can be a part of baby's life...u can't make him. All u can do is be the best Mommy u can be. Your baby will love you for it
@danyale_17 that's even better when she will totally love your baby when she see her !!!!!everything will be OK be positive if she already letting you move back in that's a good start !!!