I love my son I really do but his whining has gotten out of control. My parents spoiled him way to much to the point…

@crystal.newman, girl I hear you on that

@breederofboyz, I have tried that he still does it anyways 😪 my mother would always yell at me for trying to correct him and she would always say he’s just a baby

@arthuranna26, Melody tries to eat everything I eat but these goldfish are mine lol

I can't tell you HOW to discipline because every one parents differently. But I can tell u what worked for me .

When my son turned 6 months is when we started giving him boundaries/rules if he crossed them we gave him slight pop on the hand with a firm no . Not all the time sometimes we just removed him from behavior and redirected his attention/behavior.

But when I used the pop , the next I didn't pop them but warned him by saying ”dont do (whatever he was trying to do) I'm going to pop pop you. And I would repeat that until he stopped (no more than 3 times) before I actually popped him .

Now I have a one year that I rarely pop but constantly warn that I will.

I don't believe in whoopings so I wanted to get an understanding of boundaries and rules early .

Hope you find something that works for you !

@crystal.newman, nope it’s expansive 😪 but my son eats everything I eat

@arthuranna26, my husband I thought it would be cheaper to feed a toddler rather than a baby on formula. We were wrong.

@crystal.newman, same here 😭😪 it’s a waste too

@arthuranna26, sounds like our kids are pretty similar. Melody is all about throwing the food. I hate feeding her because it’s such a big mess

@crystal.newman, oh jeez my son will scream till I give him some of my food but then he will throw it on the floor and walk away and than act like he wants more so he can throw it on the floor again 😪

@arthuranna26, omg same!!! And she’s learned to scream at the top of her lungs. Like the very top of her lungs and one time she was mad at me while I was holding her little sister and screamed in the babies face. I knocked her ass down and gave her a whooping. She could of done some damage. Another time she was mad and I was changing her sister diaper on the floor because it was just easier on me and my daughter tried to purposely step on her. She’s so wild.

Check out that link I posted

https://www.supernanny.co.uk/AMP/Advice/-/Parenting-Skills/-/Discipline-and-Reward/Why-children-need-discipline.aspx

@crystal.newman, mine screams because I won’t let him on the bed or in the bathroom or what I am eating 😪

@arthuranna26, my daughter is literally screaming at me right now because I won’t give her a gold fish cracker. These are mine. And she’s already eaten.

@crystal.newman, it’s horrible 😫

@breederofboyz, I am trying I put him in a time out and he leaves it and than screams yet nothing is happing to him.

I would suggest that you find a discipline that works for you and hurry up & stop that behavior because it will only get worse .

My daughter has been acting that way too and it’s killing me

@breederofboyz, I have been doing no that and all he does is whine and then throw stuff at me 😭😪

Stay firm & while he's whining (granted he's not screaming) talk to him and explain that he has to use his words to tell you what he wants. I know he can't talk really but that's how I do my son. Its preparing him for when he can talk and what you expect of him .