Leighann Sumner
lghnnsmnr231
Leighann Sumner·Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

Sometimes I wish it was just me and my kids. Their dad and I are together. However he does not have a job , he does not contribute or help me at all with bills , and tonight my daughter is up not feeling good and I'm up with her , while he is fast asleep after I worked 12 hours today and have to work 12 hours tomorrow as well. He never loves on me or makes me feel loved. I can't afford a baby sitter as I am sinking in bills . So he does keep the kids. And they are both daddies babies during the day. I wish I could leave . I long to feel loved and be helped out financially. I am do depressed and don't know what to do. I feel so alone .

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mommapocahontas

I understand. Whatever decision you choose to make i hope you can be happy. You deserve it just always keep your head up

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lghnnsmnr231
Leighann Sumner·Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

@mommapocahontas I'm so sorry he did that to you. That's so terrible. ❤and thanks girl. It just hurts he use to be the best thing that ever happend to me. But some days I find myself crying asking "why me" . I try so hard to be a good wife ,mother , employee and always feel like I get shit on when I go home to him. I'm just scared to leave because I can not afford a baby sitter and the kids are daddies boy and girl. They are all about their daddy. And I feel like it would completely devastate and depress them .

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mommapocahontas

Yea see that's not right. My ex did the same to me when i was pregnant with his twins. Then the same day i miscarried, he was off with other women claiming he was making money. Now he's alone still doing the same stuff babies and cant take care of them. Anywho, you don't need those games especially when you're a hard working momma with little ones to take care of. This is not no game and if he cant get with the program you might want to cut him off and get you a man that will be supportive. At the end of the day you gotta look out for your babies and do what's best for them.

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lghnnsmnr231
Leighann Sumner·Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

@mommapocahontas numerous times. He thinks it's a damn joke. He even laughs at it or mocks me sometimes.

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mommapocahontas

Have you tried telling him how you feel?

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