Sometimes I wish it was just me and my kids. Their dad and I are together. However he does not have a job , he does not contribute or help me at all with bills , and tonight my daughter is up not feeling good and I'm up with her , while he is fast asleep after I worked 12 hours today and have to work 12 hours tomorrow as well. He never loves on me or makes me feel loved. I can't afford a baby sitter as I am sinking in bills . So he does keep the kids. And they are both daddies babies during the day. I wish I could leave . I long to feel loved and be helped out financially. I am do depressed and don't know what to do. I feel so alone .
@mommapocahontas I'm so sorry he did that to you. That's so terrible. ❤and thanks girl. It just hurts he use to be the best thing that ever happend to me. But some days I find myself crying asking "why me" . I try so hard to be a good wife ,mother , employee and always feel like I get shit on when I go home to him. I'm just scared to leave because I can not afford a baby sitter and the kids are daddies boy and girl. They are all about their daddy. And I feel like it would completely devastate and depress them .
Yea see that's not right. My ex did the same to me when i was pregnant with his twins. Then the same day i miscarried, he was off with other women claiming he was making money. Now he's alone still doing the same stuff babies and cant take care of them. Anywho, you don't need those games especially when you're a hard working momma with little ones to take care of. This is not no game and if he cant get with the program you might want to cut him off and get you a man that will be supportive. At the end of the day you gotta look out for your babies and do what's best for them.
@mommapocahontas numerous times. He thinks it's a damn joke. He even laughs at it or mocks me sometimes.

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
anyone else's boyfriend enjoy working more than being home with their pregnant girlfriend? I love that he is working hard for us but he works with his friends and when he makes money all he does he is spend it on weed and pointless things, and he will just go from a 6 hour shift to working a 12 hour because he volunteers, I am tired of being alone 24/7
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
I understand. Whatever decision you choose to make i hope you can be happy. You deserve it just always keep your head up