I feel so helpless.. I feel like my husband doesn’t love me anymore .. I feel like he’s tired of me or something.. he said I disgust him.. we got in a fight and now he’s talking shit to me. I told him if he’s so tired of me and I disgust him so much then why doesn’t he leave or tell me to leave ? He said that it’s getting to that point .. and that he’s not holding back ..
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Thanks girl ! 💕 that made me feel but better! You’re absolutely right ! @saismiles, ❤️
Yes work it out mama 🌺too much young girls think giving up is the right way .... but we are strong and wise and great gotta remember it’s new .and everything everything is new along with being mom and dad so it’s different /cause your not girlfriend or boyfriend it’s ♥️(mom and dad) you got this mama ❤️
@saismiles, thank you! ❤️ he always gets over it .. maybe I should just ignore him and do my own thing for a couple days.. & yeah you’re right cleaning does help me .. and so does taking my daughter and doing fun things with her ! I’d much rather work it out with him then be a single momma and miss him all the time.. but I feel like everyone has a breaking point 😔😰😭
No never think that .. cause that little thought can break us down girl and the fuck up thing is we are the only ones that hears it :) ... cleaning. Will help clear out all bad thoughts even give some space /which all us mamas need sometimes ... but just know if he still reacts he still cares we mama just get emotionally available maybe too much ...there’s nothing wrong with that but never give your thoughts love before action ;)
@saismiles, yeah if I keep myself occupied then I will be fine.. I just hate thinking that he might not wanna be with me anymore.. I hate thinking that he will just get up and leave me one day..
@motherhustler_xo, I know.. it’s just hard ! We have been together for 5 years now ! We’ve always worked though our fights no matter how bad they were .. I just feel so helpless ! I don’t wanna live alone I don’t wanna live without him! He’s my other half ! I just feel like he’s over me .. I just don’t see how .. maybe it’s just the mood he’s in 😩😭
Don’t worry mama , we got to that point too / I found cleaning something helped putting on music /something about leaving and not bothering with nonsense by our partners &cleaning seems too put them in another light .... and us .
Girl, don't settle for less than you deserve. It sounds like you need to kick him to the curb.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
When can I start giving my son regular milk? He turns 10 months in 2 days. I bought unsweetened almond milk yesterday so he can try. Would that be okay? I’m lowkey tired of him on formula but I mean he’s still a baby lol.
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this :( I hope everything works out but don't forget you should never allow someone to treat or talk to you in a demeaning way, you don't deserve that and your daughter shouldn't see him treating you like that either. Everyone goes through ups and downs and it can be difficult to push through it but not impossible. Don't allow someone to treat you that way especially if it's happened more than once. You are the mother of child and his wife, he should have the utmost respect for you. Best wishes💕