Girls is this normal. So I'm starting to get broody again really bad! Worse after watching one born every minute! and my OH says would you go through that again so I thought he did want it too but I don't think he meant right now. Which has kinda made me not want to be sexual due to wanting to have another baby with him so now it's caused problems as I rejected him last night cos it's really getting to me. But i feel I'm being selfish by wanting another baby and feel my family won't like it as lily-mae is still young etc. I have told my OH about this now as he thought I wasn't interested in him. But what do I do :(. I mean I don't work etc so we probably won't have much money but I just can't shift this feeling! 😣
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I've been feeling pretty broody lately too! I think it's all the little babies and pregnant women on here that are to blame!!😂 my husband isn't ready yet- I'm not really either but I can't help but want another it's only natural for women I think. I'm just trying not to mention or push it too much xx
** but I would be careful not to force him or push him in to it 👍xx
@xjadeandlilymae18x, just think your little one will be nearly 2 so can go to preschool to give you a little break as well and if you really want another speak to your partner about it and see what you both decide xxx
I would talk to him and if he does say no ask why and see you can work on the worries he has, maybe finial worries or pregnancy or just the thought of having another child to look after but you could find out true problems and try and work in them to make him feel more relaxed and less worried about it and hopefully he would slowly come round to the idea 😉😉 my partner didn't want another when I first started thinking about it but I just reassured him about any concerns he had and talked about all the positives that would come from it now we're finally trying 😂 and is the working!!!xx
@courtniek98x yeah we have the same issue least you have a bit more room in a house than us in a flat lol. But I guess other people are in the same boat. I feel it would be a struggle having a young baby and a new born as well so need to think about that xD but still can't stop thinking about it xxxx
@isabellaboo yeah I know it's made me think hmm if I can't have a baby it's just made me not want to do anything with him as I want to do it to make a baby if you get me I am obsessed! Even tracking my cycle etc. Well yeah that's true could work around it just money I'm not sure if we will get help as family treat us as if we are never gonna have anymore etc so money is hard. He does want another but don't think he's as bothered right now so guess I can talk to him and see if he definitely does want another one at some point! Xx
We have a 2 bed house and harper will be 2 by the time baby is here so obviously baby will be in our room for at least a year then sharing with harper afterwards xxx
@xjadeandlilymae18x, when I first started thinking about having another baby it's all I could think about literally 😂 I don't think a 2 bedroom flat is bad the baby would be in with you for atleast a year then would share with little one in the other room I don't think that would be an issue, money is hard cuz babies are expensive you would have to work out if the extra money you would get would be enough and would people help you out if needed etc. the problem is if he really doesn't want another your kind of stuck 🤷🏼♀️😩 xx
@isabellaboo yeah I've kinda just dumped it all on what's app as he felt I didn't like him anymore as I rejected him so had to say something but he's working so won't have time to talk to me til later so will have to see what he says lol but yeah I just feel we would struggle so may need a good hard think about it etc xx
Yeah I know just feel we wouldnt be financially safe sort of thing and we have to move into a house etc as only on a 2 bed flat alot to think about first but feel I am the only one wanting this. Xx
I would have a talk with him and say how you feel and listen to what he has to say. I wouldn't make your decision on what your family thinks it's not up to them what you do it's up to you and your partner I would maybe go through all the cons and what you think you will struggle the most with money, stress, the pregnancy etc then talk about how you could deal with them and if it's the right choice to make right now 😊xx
Shouldnt matter what your family thinks :) do what you want..you are an adult. You can choose when to have kids or not :) x
Well yeah I think I've gotten Abit moody about it cos I want us to get a house etc so our little girl has a garden to play in etc. I think I feel like he doesn't listen or understand me not about just this etc and I mean I want to work things out to get a house and talk about more kids but he just can't seem to have one of them conversations xx