Okay ladies I need help . So the baby and I left the hospital yesterday, so we’re at home and it’s time to put him to sleep and he cried every 30 minuets from 10pm-8am the whole time so I’m like okay what am supposed to do ,He’s clean he’s in his pack n play . I swaddled him he ate . Like what’s wrong with my baby so at 9am I laid him next to me. (I know he not supposed to sleep next to me but I wanted to see what would happen). He went to sleep and hasn’t cried since then I got up and feed him again laid him back down next to me he’s still sleeping. What do you suggest I do because he can’t sleep with me but also if not he gone keep me up all night😢😢😢
@green.najah no...it just be sore down there so they be fussy n irritated....
@johnsonarriel24, @ckaitate, does circumcising the baby have something bad to do with the baby sleeping?
It's the first couple months that are the hardest while you're trying to get into routine.. Babies get so cranky when they're tired so he may just have to cry to sleep, hold him then lay him down in his own sleeping space. If you're absolutely too tired and cosleeping is the only way he will sleep, just do it, keep all blankets away from him and make sure you are able to do it as safely as possible. My baby would only sleep with me for a few months and I weaned her off of it by making her take naps somewhere else during the day. She eventually got used to it and now she sleeps anywhere I put her. Just takes time to get used to it. You got this momma!
@johnsonarriel24, yes but that’s only cuz he sleeping with me
Just do your best. He's been inside you for 9 months, its gonna take at least 9 months to adjust to the world. They go through a fourth trimester just like mom does. There are 5 "S's" to calm baby.
Sucking
Swaddle
Side or stomach position
Shush
Swing
He may like some of those things or all of them combined. If he falls asleep on you or with you just try gently transferring him to his bed. And that might take a few tries! You can also sing to him while rocking, pat his back or booty and shhhhh, stroller walking. Good luck.
@ckaitate all i can say is he will get better..is he sleeping now?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
This is going to sound odd but sleep with the blanket or what your using to swaddle him get ur scent on it more then likely if you can get him smelling ur scent on the blanket the more likely he will sleep alone