@motherof3boyz702 tried that they just take advantage and cant get ahead or it's just some drama or they realize they like there space to them selves or landlords have a problem with it so I figure a shelter would be the best way to get the help I need to get on my feet

@macshell23 damn that sounda so hard, any family you can stay woth till you get on ur feet?

@motherof3boyz702 thanks yes I've been keeping my mind positive it helps so much to be I'll actually be going to a women's shelter to get away from him since he's always breaking in and is abusive there's a restraining order already and he keeps breaking it and isn't going and taking his drugs tests like he's supposed to or keeping in touch with them by Friday he should have a warrant if he doesn't go so I'm hoping that'll be the case they keep giving him so many chances cause you're right they don't need to be around him at his worst , I've given him many chances to get it together tried to help but he just don't wanna change, and it started affecting the kids to where it's obvious, but I've been reaching out getting all the help I can get to leave and stay away from him so I know me and my kids will be ok

damn, sounds tough...but just keep your head up, positive thoughts...and stay away from him till he is off drugs, your babies dobt need to be around him at his worst.
sometimes its been to move on and not dwell on the past.just remeber you have 3 precious babies and they need you.