Does any other mom have a problem with their husbands not understanding postpartum? Like I have anxiety about being away from my son and I just love spending time with him. My fiance doesn't get it, he gets upset that we don't spend more time together and thinks I care more about my son then him... any advice?
Mommas who are separated from their childrens dad. If my sons father is to get our son every other Friday-Sunday, but then tells me halfway through the week he can't take him Friday until Saturday due to taking up an optional shift at work, can I legally tell him he either takes him Friday at his ordered time or doesn't get him? He's constantly cancelling whole weekends or taking our son a quarter of his ordered time. He also isn't following the meets on the order. Almost every Sunday he has him I get a message that he doesn't have a car so I have to get my son, or he tells me i have to run him out there. I'm already having cut hours at work and getting no child support from him since he's been continuously in and out of work.
Its almost 11. Put my son to bed at 9:20 and he has bee. Down here 5 times already i am about to loose it. And when he is upstairs i hear walking around and no one else isnup there but for my daughter who is sleeping. Im sooooo close. I havent had any time to myself at all. Im sore as hell and just want 30 minutes!! Butnnow im about to go to sleep and i just know its going be about 10 more times my son comes to me of some made up injury or how hes thirsty. I might not have any hair by tomorrow morning im so stressed ane pissed but trying to keep calm Adhd or not rules are rules and he needs to be in bed trying to sleep. Im so over this and dont know what to do
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
SLEEP Every time someone posts about their 6 week old sleeping through the night, I want to punch a wall. My 14 month old has slept through the night probably 5 times in his life. I'm fcking tired. He used to get up only once. Now he's up 4 - 5x a night. Honestly, idk if I want any more children. All I can think about is going years and years never sleeping. I'm losing my faking mind. It's honestly starting to make me angry every time I have to get up. (Obviously not enough to hurt him). my husband wonders why I never want sex. I use all my energy just trying to get trough the day to have another s*** tty night. I still bf him at night.
Wanna get my nose pierced, does anyone have any experience with it? Price? Healing time?
Lauren Whitby·
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@tribe.of.judah I am trying to let him be more involved but as soon as he cries he just wants to hand him right back. (Which is like 5 minutes) he spends more time with his friends everyday then with us, but complains that I'm always with my son and not him. By the time he is sleeping at night he is already in bed sleeping as well. I'm trying not to push him away but I feel like that's all I'm doing......
Lauren Whitby·
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@tribe.of.judah I know but i just take him back and calm him down and then that's it.... I just feel like it's my fault....