@courtney5610 lol yes me too

@tinkcem85, yeah I’d be golden if I was how I am drunk sober lol

@tinkcem85, I try and I try to hard, he says I’m always walking on egg shells and he hates it.

@courtney5610 lol im lose when i drink too

@courtney5610 me neither my parents never showed me how to love or the meaning of it so thats why i have a hard time to express myself to him but im very loving to my kids and he gets jealous that im not like that towards him at times

@tinkcem85, I am too I’m very quiet unless I been drinking. I feel like we just “fuck” and he said the same thing this morning, he doesn’t wanna feel like he is fucking me, but I’ve always been quiet and idk if I’ll ever come out of my shell on that

@tinkcem85, same here when I tell him I love him he always says “why” and my skin crawls lol I feel guilty but I’ve never had to explain to anyone why I love them you know

@courtney5610 im very shy when it comes to talking about sex and what i like and how i want it and my husband is the opposite his very open about it

@courtney5610 i was like that with my husband always kept my head down when he would talk to me but he would alway pick it up and help me to talk him and express my self but to be honest ive been with him for almost 10 yrs and i still cant tell him why i love him thats still hard for me idk y lol

Oh and not to mention the whole opening up with sex thing too. I’m very reserved/ quiet when it comes to that, and he definitely reminds me about it

I was in a toxic relationship years ago, I’ve now been with my husband 6 years and sometimes still have a hard time opening up about certain things.. not because I don’t trust him, but sometimes things I went through in that past relationship makes it hard for me to open up to anyone! Take it day by day ❤️

@tinkcem85, yes he knows. He’s very patient with me, and understanding, but we’ve had this conversation before, and I never respond back after he talks I’m still just quiet lol

Does he know what kind of relationship you where in before him if he does then he should understand you and be patient with you.. Its going to take you time just cause everything you been through it took me along time as well to open up to my husband but he help me to open up to him little by little and im still working on it too so i know its hard. I say just try slow and he should be understanding that at least your trying

@katwillbrand, yes it is very hard to open up, I’m trying and he knows I’m trying. I can talk all day long through text messages, but the second we get face-to-face it’s like I freeze up

I’m the type of girl who always kept to herself until I met my husband, it’s very very hard to open up to someone after not saying anything to anyone. My husband is very supportive and likes to hear what I think and how I feel, but I still struggle to open up. I think it takes time start with small things and let him know you are trying your best to be open but it will take time! He should understand that 😊💛