What do you do when the love is gone?

You say something. And either the relationship is strong enough and is savable or it's not. And if it's not, life is too short to be unhappy. Live your best life. You're worth it.

Spend a weekend away together at a B&B.. Change is good and couples forget to go on dates to keep the spice. Sometimes you need to really see if it's the love or just forgot how to be a couple before baby and pregnancy 🤷🏽

@starting_over39 I've Suggested So Many things my ideas are always shot down. His idea of romantic is sitting on the couch watching the same movie for the 5th time . He's more into it than me . He's boring . And I'm getting boring as well. That's what my friend tells me .

@mommy1991 I believe the love is there. But not as strong as before . It's whatever with him now . I feel like we do our own thing . I hate the fact that he gets to chill and watch his tv when he gets home .He is acting more like a roommate than a husband . He isn't able to take care of me . I'm so exhausted mentally and physically that I don't want to have sex anymore . I've told him that when I started back to work I'll be on my feet and It will be harder vs his job . Think he forgets about me . Feels like he'll remember about me when he needs something .

Maybe you have to do things for yourself without him and when he sees how much fun you are having, he may wanna just join in. Instead if waiting for him find friends who like to do the activities you enjoy. Take your son to his grand parents and do you for now. If no changes we'll then you may need marriage counseling etc

@starting_over39 I'm scared of change 😣

@dizz_d, I feel like I’m in exactly the same place as you.. it’s so hard to know how to keep going. If u need an ear to listen I’m here