So.... Baby daddy and I aren’t together. We haven’t been since September because of the whole him cheating on me when…

- At least he’s trying. My fiancé, when I caught him cheating on me, with his Facebook official girlfriend (she had no clue) he blew up at me. Blamed me. Got physical with me. And hasn’t contacted me in almost three weeks. He knew my due date, knew my scheduled csection, and knew when I was having my early emergency one. He’s blocked me on everything after threatening to take me to court for custody. Single moms gotta stick together. Feel free to vent to me anytime! (:

@beccaaalynnn11, thanks girl! Sorry to hear about what he’s done. Mine just doesn’t understand that I don’t give second chances to someone who cheats on me. His reasoning for cheating was that I didn’t give him the attention he wanted and he was lonely. I didn’t give him attention because I was always sick and sleeping all days because I was PREGNANT.

- Yeah, men are dumb! He did good my first pregnancy, but after my loss, I was majorly affected. He said it was nice to talk to someone who wasn’t sad all the time.. Girl, exactly. What would be different now ? Did he tell you or did he get caught ? Mine got caught, and showed no sign of remorse..

@beccaaalynnn11, he got caught because the girl stepped up and told me and sent me the proof. I gave him multiple chances over 3 days to come clean before I told him I already knew and broke up with him. He even swore on his daughter and our unborn child’s lives.... If he would’ve come clean when I asked, it would’ve been better and I might’ve been willing to work on things. Not now!

- Yes. 💪🏻💪🏻 Women always know.

I’m just getting tired of him being selfish and having hidden motives for doing nice things. Then, he tells me I’m wrong when I confront him and he acts like a martyr.

- My guy did the same.. haven’t heard from him in three weeks.. If he does take me to court, that’ll favor me I believe. You’re not married right ?

@beccaaalynnn11, I’m sure they’ll favor you either way. You’re the one who takes care of your kids and provides for them.

No, we’re not married. Thank God! After the way he treats his first daughter’s mom and threatens to take her to court at least once a month because she didn’t give him his way with their daughter, I decided to not put him on the birth certificate. He’ll use my little girl as a pawn too and I’m not letting it happen. I’ll do just fine without child support too.

- My guy said he’d sue me for paternity. I didn’t put him on my boys birth certificate. Which would just make the uphill battle steeper for him. See that. Him doing that. That’s exactly what I don’t want. I’m not working. I haven’t worked in five months almost. :-/

@beccaaalynnn11, the father knows he isn’t going on the birth certificate. I told him months ago and I told him why. I simply don’t trust him. He’s done so much to me that I can’t trust him. He threatens to take his ex to court about his first daughter all the time. He doesn’t have a good reason either. He just wants things done his way, not hers. He hates that she’s custodial parent and calls the shots.

I haven’t worked in about 5 months either and it’s been rough on me. I’m not used to depending on people, yet I’m having to depend on the one person I can’t trust. I hate not working and I plan on getting a job when my breast milk comes in fully and I can pump.

- I was dependent on my guy also.. horrible feeling.. he screwed me big time. I’ve got $2,000 of debt just because he didn’t pay the bills like he said he did. That guy sounds petty. It just affects the child. People forget that when they’re being selfish.

@beccaaalynnn11, he tells me how he wants us to be together for the baby’s benefit. I told him it’s not gonna do the baby any good if the mom hates the father and is miserable.

- Exactly! May even cause more harm than good..

@beccaaalynnn11, he’s staying with me until a couple weeks after she’s born. He started staying with me last night too. I got NO sleep. I don’t know how I’m gonna put up with him for a month and a half.

- Why no sleep ? You need sleep. Stress will make your baby come sooner. That’s why my baby is here so soon.

@beccaaalynnn11, it isn’t from stress. I hate sleeping next to anyone and he’s a cuddler and he fidgets a lot.

- Send him to the couch.. he should know better than to try and cuddle you..

@beccaaalynnn11, I hate being touched at all. It doesn’t feel good to have my skin touched. It doesn’t register in his brain when I keep telling him to leave me alone.