Question ladies.....if u were staying with ur ppl wen u and ur S.O met...would u move into their place where they had a…

That makes sense ☺️

@tina1992.e its more about wat is best for the kids and what financially smart....it made more sense to move in with him,than to live seperately and pay bills in two different houses...

But everybody has there own opinions if your happy then who care what people think 🤔💕

Being in the same living place as my boyfriends ex would make me think negative things but that’s jus me ma

yea we been living together in this house for 4 years....but even before him....i stayed with my gma wen i had my first baby@tina1992.e

Befor you even give birth to your baby it’s best to have ur own apartment, I just moved into my own apartment with my man, we can’t wait till our lil man gets here 💕👶🤰

My husband did. When we met I was living in an apartment my and my ex got together. He lived in an apartment above a bar at the time.

@johnsonarriel24 whoa, that's crazy! I'm not sure I'd like that! His ex went back to the state she came from. Lol I do worry about her moving back and applying in the complex, but she's got a free ride with her dad and is set to inherit his house and she's lazy as fuck. Lol

@halifax6 thats whats up....but yea i have somewhat made it my own...our kids had alot to do with it as well lol. im jus being a baby right now..and the fact that she can ride past my house wenever she wants pisses me off sometimes...hell he went to jail in november for two weeks.u know she actually came over here to "check" on me?! like who does that! i figure wen i move shit like that cant happen

@j.somers2014 u right.. this is actually my due date lol

Hate the fact, not Hayworth.. Wtf autocrorrect

I moved in to my now husbands, apartment he shared with his ex wife. I loved with my parents before, so it was the only option. There weren't any open apartments so switching wasn't an option. His ex wife took literally EVERYTHING so all he had was a TV, TV stand, air mattress and a ps 4. Lol we spent the last two years buying things and making the place our own. That's my best advice. Make it your own. I still Hayworth fact she lived here, but I have him, so I won 💙💖💙

@johnsonarriel24 it's most likely cabin fever. Our winters here in Michigan make for the WORST cases of cabin fever! You're close to due, and winter still isn't over.

@j.somers2014 thats true...the hormones must be gettinh to me lol

@latina.mama oh i definitely did all that lol...even tho he bought everything. i jus told him u gonna have to buy that shit again lol...i came with my own bed linens and bath towels....i even tossed the couch n got new furniture new paint job too!! but still....lol

@johnsonarriel24 I think the fact you've been there for 4 years shows your strength. She might have lived there, but you've made it YOUR home. As long as there's nothing still tying her to the place i.e furniture, photos, etc, I don't see why you couldn't continue to live there.

@johnsonarriel24, listen haha I’m a HOT mess I unfortunately linger on my past experiences as well but I have to beat myself up to come back to reality

@mimimommyof2 i hear that😊 wish i was like u.my mind jumps from the moment, to back in my childhood, to my teenage turmoil years lol...ima mess lol

Personally I wouldn’t

@johnsonarriel24, yea I totally get what you mean it’s like you feel he would straight do it to you as well but hey mama life is a cycle anyhow so live in the moment

@j.somers2014 yea it is...thats y im ready to move

@mimimommyof2 yea...makes sense.ive been here for 4 years now anyway...im jus ready to move.they had just broke up...then a few weeks later i was moving in. it kinda makes me feel week sometimes...idk y

Probably not, but it's a tough call.

I have and would it doesn’t mean anything it’s like being married and owning a home I’m not going to sell my house just because my ex husband was in it you know if that makes sense?