I have a question .. don’t shoot me lol but I really am clueless as to how a woman is able to have eggs but wouldn’t be able to carry them herself. Is it not the same as a woman getting a cerclage and steroids during the pregnancy? Or is it the feeling of being scared and not wanting to to go through that so they get a surrogate?
@superchilledmom, best time to happen (sometimes ) lol
@alexusasia420, lol I didnt plan it either it just happened
@superchilledmom, yeah you waited longer than I did lol. I wasn’t planning too but I got pregnant weeks after
@alexusasia420, yes of course!!! I got pregnant 7 months after... I love my heaven baby so much but I also understand that this is the baby that was meant to be
@superchilledmom, it deff is having to leave the hospital without your baby you planned for. Then the aftermath of everything is hurtful but we get through it.
@alexusasia420, i gave birth at 4 months it was horrible😞 im sorry for your loss mama
@superchilledmom, Yes exactly, I had my daughter. She was here for a few mins and was pronounced gone.
@alexusasia420, it sucks that women have to lose a pregnancy to know they have an incompetent cervix... my baby now is also my rainbow baby (lost my first because of that)
@superchilledmom, No my first was an emergency csection. I had to get it because during my pregnancy with my second baby my water broke early, I wasn’t aware that I was suppose to be stitched up with her, being that I was already high risk. My third (second that is here with me now) is my rainbow baby)
@superchilledmom, yes it is. You just can’t have grown woman time lol but it’s worth the sacrifice.
@mommywifelifestyle, wow thank you I didn’t know it can go that far. I myself, have to have a cerclage and take steroid shots every time I get a pregnant. It’s a bit stressful but doable. I didn’t know it can get serious as heart problems. I know women with severe diabetes who still carry. That’s why I was so confused so thank you.
@mommywifelifestyle, this happens to me, I need a cerclage every pregnancy so that I am able to carry the baby full term
I know someone else who has a heart condition so if she gets pregnant it would literally kill her as her heart is not strong enough to handle the extra strain from a pregnancy. So she would have to have a surrogate if decided to have another child (heart condition happened after having a child)
Sometime they physically cant carry. I know someone who had to have her cervix sewed shut in order to carry to term as her cervix just couldnt handle carrying. Others have medical issuses that make them unable to carry. You can have viable eggs just unable to carry a child.
Will i always have a little pouch from my c section? Will i ever be able to get my stomach flat?
I have PCOS & I don't get why I have to take birth control & metformin at the same time? isn't birth control supposed to stop you from ovulating & metformin is supposed to help you ovulate? This is so frustrating. I just want to be able to get pregnant..
Why am I not having cravings? I don't even have an appetite. I don't get how girls that are only a few weeks pregnant complain about not being able to stop eating or craving things lol
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I had 3 boys but after my last delivery they couldn’t stop the bleeding. So to save my life they had to remove my uterus. So I have eggs just no way to carry it.