AlexusAsia
alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

I have a question .. don’t shoot me lol but I really am clueless as to how a woman is able to have eggs but wouldn’t be able to carry them herself. Is it not the same as a woman getting a cerclage and steroids during the pregnancy? Or is it the feeling of being scared and not wanting to to go through that so they get a surrogate?

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alicia929

I had 3 boys but after my last delivery they couldn’t stop the bleeding. So to save my life they had to remove my uterus. So I have eggs just no way to carry it.

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, best time to happen (sometimes ) lol

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poeticglory

@alexusasia420, lol I didnt plan it either it just happened

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, yeah you waited longer than I did lol. I wasn’t planning too but I got pregnant weeks after

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poeticglory

@alexusasia420, yes of course!!! I got pregnant 7 months after... I love my heaven baby so much but I also understand that this is the baby that was meant to be

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, it deff is having to leave the hospital without your baby you planned for. Then the aftermath of everything is hurtful but we get through it.

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poeticglory

@alexusasia420, i gave birth at 4 months it was horrible😞 im sorry for your loss mama

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, Yes exactly, I had my daughter. She was here for a few mins and was pronounced gone.

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poeticglory

@alexusasia420, it sucks that women have to lose a pregnancy to know they have an incompetent cervix... my baby now is also my rainbow baby (lost my first because of that)

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, No my first was an emergency csection. I had to get it because during my pregnancy with my second baby my water broke early, I wasn’t aware that I was suppose to be stitched up with her, being that I was already high risk. My third (second that is here with me now) is my rainbow baby)

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poeticglory

@alexusasia420, have you had it both pregnancies?

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, yes mam😊

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poeticglory

@alexusasia420, lmao yea🤷🏻‍♀️☹️ but def worth it!

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, yes it is. You just can’t have grown woman time lol but it’s worth the sacrifice.

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poeticglory

@alexusasia420, its super helpful!

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@superchilledmom, same here

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alexusasia420
AlexusAsia·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@mommywifelifestyle, wow thank you I didn’t know it can go that far. I myself, have to have a cerclage and take steroid shots every time I get a pregnant. It’s a bit stressful but doable. I didn’t know it can get serious as heart problems. I know women with severe diabetes who still carry. That’s why I was so confused so thank you.

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poeticglory

@mommywifelifestyle, this happens to me, I need a cerclage every pregnancy so that I am able to carry the baby full term

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mommywifelifestyle
Ashlea·Мама сына (2 года)

I know someone else who has a heart condition so if she gets pregnant it would literally kill her as her heart is not strong enough to handle the extra strain from a pregnancy. So she would have to have a surrogate if decided to have another child (heart condition happened after having a child)

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mommywifelifestyle
Ashlea·Мама сына (2 года)

Sometime they physically cant carry. I know someone who had to have her cervix sewed shut in order to carry to term as her cervix just couldnt handle carrying. Others have medical issuses that make them unable to carry. You can have viable eggs just unable to carry a child.

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